Attracting Women

When you need to attract her in a tense moment, the 4 humors come to the rescue...

 Winning at Work

You've encountered it countless times - that one word that lets you know that a woman, a job, and a life is just right for you...

 Being of Worth

Men work too hard for everyone but themselves, and have a life lesson or two to learn from Odysseus...
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The Four Types of Humor in Women

Tension is not always a bad thing. At least when you recognize that it is the same as arousal, and arousal is a neutral thing simply meaning that you have someone's attention.

On one end of the spectrum, allowing it to build too high becomes anxiety-ridden and uncomfortable, and letting it be too loose - too slow - causes it to fall flat and not be very interesting.

The perfect complement to a gift for creating tension with a woman, is the gift of humor - and the knowledge that there are exactly four main types of it.

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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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Psychological Inflation, Luck, and Wealth

They call it "dumb luck" and I agree. It's dumb. For those of us who hold onto good fortune and get too emotionally invested in its meaning, we find it can all too easily slip through our fingers with the rise and fall of very real forces like the economy, or our social environments, or our health. And for those who wait around aimlessly for good fortune that hasn't yet - and maybe never will - bestow its blessing on us, it may be pointless to wait one moment longer without going out to champion your own growth, success, and prosperity.

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What You Owe Yourself as a Man

As a guy, you spend a lot of your time helping others (or being commanded by others.) Now is the time to remember - always - what you will always owe yourself.
There’s a special thing that happens over time when you use these systems for personal growth that we provide you.
It doesn’t matter how well you know them. With enough time, you notice new aha’s, new insights, because of the things that happen to you in everyday life.
It happened to me again recently.

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Sex as a Social Currency

Sex is a social currency. It's pleasurable, and it's emotional, which are the criteria we human beings often use to judge the value of something. Has a woman ever asked, "How much do you value me, really?" Remember your first old junker car that you bought for, perhaps, $500? The car transported you from place to place, and that was more than enough to make you value the car highly. You likely told friends that it was worth much more than $500 to you.

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The Unstoppable Underdog Male

You may have tuned in to last week's talk about "being a surfer, not an accountant." It was actually a two-part article, and this is the real juice: If you like "underdogs," cheer for underdogs, or are, yourself an "underdog" in some area of life as a man, then you are in for some seriously powerful concepts, strategies and skills this week.

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