Attracting Women

What women want in communication is different from what makes communication EFFECTIVE.

 Winning at Work

You might have heard of the "War on Men," featured on Fox. What's sad is that it took a woman to write it...

 Being of Worth

Some guys have a strong desire to change, power-up, or transform. Here's how it can be simple and effective...
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The 10 Psychological "Life-Savers" for Men

For any man finding himself in a storm, adrift at sea, it's not the same thing as being simply lost. He's both lost, and imperiled, and for those who've suffered of a breakup, a job loss (or the inability to find one), they understand the two, core, most devastating types of attack that a man may find himself caught in.

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The Anatomy of Communication With Women

Freud infamously said it first: "What do women WANT?" And even if the myth goes that this is the one thing he could not figure out, a very robust body of knowledge has been built up over the years in the field of psychoanalysis as to what really makes women tick psychologically. Now that Valentine's Day is over, we want to take a look at the literal anatomy of communication itself - to see what lessons it might offer you in terms of your effectiveness at attracting, dating, and if you so choose - finding a satisfying relationship to a woman who's worth doing so.

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We usually hear about the importance of resolving arguments with empathy and perspective for the other person described as "there are two sides to every coin," or "what would it be like if the shoe was on the other foot?"

What about thinking about the shoe itself in that metaphor?

Today we have a pretty flawless, thorough way to look at the process of forgiving a woman who's (maybe) done you wrong, and a way to really amplify your own gains in personal growth in the process.

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Masculine Intelligence™ in Breaking Up

There's never a good time for it, never a right time or place, and it usually doesn't feel right at all. For some men, breaking up seems to be easy to do, but if we get honest with ourselves, those guys are few and far between. Sometimes those men don't realize that the relationship really didn't offer either person much, and they were only pretending. For other guys, it was easy to break up because they, themselves, didn't invest all that much, or anything into the relationship.

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Decades of Women!

We often lump women together as all being cut from the same cloth, and while to a certain extend it is possible to count on feminine instincts to be uniform across demographic boundaries - the desire for resources, a friendship/belonging to a group focus, appreciation of the masculine charm, humor, territoriality and even aggression - there are some fascinating subtleties to the drives and ambitions of women as they go about their psychological development through the decades.

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Men Who Limit Themselves

We've never commented on this before, because maybe it's just so obvious to many - that women don't really care about your looks, height, hairline, weight and so much else that you are critical of yourself about.

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If there were one single trait to look for in a woman you can go the distance with, it would be "curiosity."
It may have never occurred to you that there’s an extremely quick and easy trait of character that can be used as the ultimate screen for judging whether you ought to spend time, energy, or any resource on a woman.

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