Attracting Women

Understand precisely what masculinity is, and isn't.

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Sometimes "giving up" on something is more powerful than "victory" at the moment...

 Being of Worth

Some guys have a strong desire to change, power-up, or transform. Here's how it can be simple and effective...
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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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How To Be Confident With Women

I have found that in getting very precise with exactly what a word means contains a great deal of power and practicality.

When we are too vague, as in self-help, there is no reliable, repeatable way to work on a skill. When we are too technical in language, the words become uninspiring, unemotional and not enough to move us into action or change.

Which is why I’ve defined precisely nearly every common word in psychology and self-help for you.

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Attracting Women in Costume

They say, clothes make the man, but what about when the clothes are "extreme?" Grab and keep their attention. A new view of attire...Some thoughts about Halloween holidays can turn us toward the effect of your attire - and costumes in particular, on your attractiveness to women.

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A lot has been written in recent years about how to approach women. It seems at some point between 1985 and 1999, men in America and elsewhere completely forgot how to go out on the town with friends, have fun, and meet a few girls along the way. In the last several years, the rules seem to have changed.

Or have they?  Well, not really, if you remember just four simple things when you go out. They're easy to remember and the kinds of things that a wise older brother (or astute parent) might have told you:

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How to Know a "Strong" Woman From a "Weak" One

This is one of those subtle puzzles for men to solve. Not the kind of thing urgent enough to bother your friends with a conversation about it, but enough to have an uneasy feeling that you are going down the wrong road with a woman or in your dating. If you don't figure this one out though, years down the line you might be married to a "weak" woman, empower another one to rob you blind of funds, and all the while miss out on the truly "strong" women that you didn't even know you would have preferred, needed and prospered with all along.

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Secrets of a Female Arch Enemy

Every man comes face to face with the perfect storm of a woman behaving discourteously, the pressure of her peer group (on her side), the perils of gossip, reputation, and masculine identity in the workplace being fragile. What to do flawlessly to navigate the stormy waters...

I had a female Arch-Enemy until two nights ago, when a stunning and unexpected thing happened.

She APOLOGIZED.

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