Attracting Women

If you don't have time to learn anything else, at least do these four things to get the girl...

 Winning at Work

They are the bane of your social life - ruining your best efforts at attracting women. And they may not even know they're doing it...

 Being a Man

This icon of technology, creativity and innovation leaves a gaping hole in the culture...
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Reinventing Yourself as a New Man

You've likely had some experiences in the major areas of life that made you just want to start over from scratch - a whole new identity, a whole new life, and a whole new you living in it. These may be areas such as finances, your relationships with women, your health, weight, or appearance, and even in your spirituality.

Some of these currently have societal remedies - for example, bankruptcy for your finances.

Some of the remedies for them are instant - for example, plastic surgery for your appearance.

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A lot has been written in recent years about how to approach women. It seems at some point between 1985 and 1999, men in America and elsewhere completely forgot how to go out on the town with friends, have fun, and meet a few girls along the way. In the last several years, the rules seem to have changed.

Or have they?  Well, not really, if you remember just four simple things when you go out. They're easy to remember and the kinds of things that a wise older brother (or astute parent) might have told you:

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It's New York City and Times Square beckons. I know that "real New Yorkers" can have a way of disdaining that several square block space as being too full of tourists, too crowded even for a native, too crazy and chaotic - but I like it. It's daytime bright even at night in a somehow more authentic spectacle than its brother, Las Vegas. Now THAT'S "touristy."

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Robert De Niro's Secret Dating Tips

It's a difficult interview. Robert De Niro is a man of few words, and known to be a shy interview, but the ordinarily "straight-man" Brian Williams does his best.

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Yes, I Feel Like a (New) Man!

Dr. Paul,
I am glad we spoke. Your work has been tremendously helpful to me. In fact my best memories started with following your advice in the interview you did with David D in his Dating Gurus series.
I've wanted to tell you the story for a while...Cliff note format:
About to graduate college while working on feature films in New Orleans.....still scared of many things especially approaching women in clubs, especially when traveling solo....
1. Listened to interview.
2. Rented Count of Monte Cristo from Blockbuster

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The Aphrodite Cockblock

If you didn't get her number last night, blame the ancient Greeks. Or better yet, look to ancient Greek myths and legends to explain to you exactly what happened, and how to understand exactly what's going on, next time.

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If there's anything that's true about recent films, it's that they are coming closer and closer to explaining the real instincts that are so different between men and women. Maybe it's only those by the director of Wedding Crashers and the writers of The Hangover. Either way, the just-released movie, The Change-up sends a single man and married man into the other's role, with disastrous, but truly enlightening consequences no matter which you are in your own life.

 

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