Attracting Women

There's much more to learn about strategies and tactics to understand these exotic cats...

 Winning at Work

You've encountered it countless times - that one word that lets you know that a woman, a job, and a life is just right for you...

 Being of Worth

Don't be one of those guys who is "caught with his pants down" when there are layoffs or a girlfriend with a...
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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Four Types of Humor in Women

Tension is not always a bad thing. At least when you recognize that it is the same as arousal, and arousal is a neutral thing simply meaning that you have someone's attention.

On one end of the spectrum, allowing it to build too high becomes anxiety-ridden and uncomfortable, and letting it be too loose - too slow - causes it to fall flat and not be very interesting.

The perfect complement to a gift for creating tension with a woman, is the gift of humor - and the knowledge that there are exactly four main types of it.

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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Psychological Inflation, Luck, and Wealth

They call it "dumb luck" and I agree. It's dumb. For those of us who hold onto good fortune and get too emotionally invested in its meaning, we find it can all too easily slip through our fingers with the rise and fall of very real forces like the economy, or our social environments, or our health. And for those who wait around aimlessly for good fortune that hasn't yet - and maybe never will - bestow its blessing on us, it may be pointless to wait one moment longer without going out to champion your own growth, success, and prosperity.

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Like Superheroes, Your Father Never Dies

Once upon a time... He was your hero. In good times and bad, our fathers' lessons never go away, even if they someday do...
We’ve just finished a lean, efficient Expedition with yet another class of great guys, and the lessons are many.
By now, you’ve seen our new name and how well it really fits our mission with men: www.menspsychology.com.

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Decades of Women!

We often lump women together as all being cut from the same cloth, and while to a certain extend it is possible to count on feminine instincts to be uniform across demographic boundaries - the desire for resources, a friendship/belonging to a group focus, appreciation of the masculine charm, humor, territoriality and even aggression - there are some fascinating subtleties to the drives and ambitions of women as they go about their psychological development through the decades.

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The Gordian Knot of Your Life

Maybe you are a survivalist and a scrapper in your life, who has always managed to get by some way, somehow. You've done a great deal of work on your life too - no laziness here - but over time, "the squeaky wheel has gotten the grease"... leaving you with numerous connections, habits, resources, and burdens all tied together with each other.

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