Attracting Women

The inability to take action in romance with women becomes a "double obstacle" for men to overcome...

 Winning at Work

Every man ever born has a built-in instinct to pursue success - often financial - but "luck" is not part of that equation...

 Being of Worth

It's easy to claim you're after a goal, but very few men reach their dreams without these two things...
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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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Being a Man of Inaction

We just finished another bootcamp for men in Chicago and are about to head to New York City for another one for men this friday-saturday, and I have to tell you how one thing strikes me: so often, men think that they have to be perfect in so many ways - perfect at their dating skills, finding the perfect woman to marry, and after a tough time of a long relationship or the absence of a dating life on the other end of the spectrum, many rubber-band to the opposite of what t

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Masculine Intelligence™ in Breaking Up

There's never a good time for it, never a right time or place, and it usually doesn't feel right at all. For some men, breaking up seems to be easy to do, but if we get honest with ourselves, those guys are few and far between. Sometimes those men don't realize that the relationship really didn't offer either person much, and they were only pretending. For other guys, it was easy to break up because they, themselves, didn't invest all that much, or anything into the relationship.

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The American holiday, Thanksgiving, has just passed - a time for doing just as it sounds: expressing thanks for what you have in your life, and your relationships. Whether or not you celebrate this holiday, my guess would be that at some time in the past few months you wondered about an aspect of being with a woman for which there is very little advice, instruction or solid, step-by-step actions to take:

What does a woman's capacity to celebrate, and to have gratitude (for YOU) mean about her, and mean about you?

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How to Maximize "Sexual Polarity" With a Woman

If you understand women, you know that personality is everything in a man.This shows you how to dominate in every other way.
It’s not so simple as just being direct or positive, or getting all the details of what you want in a woman down on paper.
It’s getting the science right, and getting the right girl.
There have been many times in my life that I wanted something I didn’t need, and others that I got something I neither wanted nor needed.
If you practice the first, you’ll also unfortunately probably get the second.

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How to Know a "Strong" Woman From a "Weak" One

This is one of those subtle puzzles for men to solve. Not the kind of thing urgent enough to bother your friends with a conversation about it, but enough to have an uneasy feeling that you are going down the wrong road with a woman or in your dating. If you don't figure this one out though, years down the line you might be married to a "weak" woman, empower another one to rob you blind of funds, and all the while miss out on the truly "strong" women that you didn't even know you would have preferred, needed and prospered with all along.

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