This is one of those subtle puzzles for men to solve. Not the kind of thing urgent enough to bother your friends with a conversation about it, but enough to have an uneasy feeling that you are going down the wrong road with a woman or in your dating. If you don't figure this one out though, years down the line you might be married to a "weak" woman, empower another one to rob you blind of funds, and all the while miss out on the truly "strong" women that you didn't even know you would have preferred, needed and prospered with all along.