Attracting Women

What women want in communication is different from what makes communication EFFECTIVE.

 Winning at Work

Men struggle with an "Achilles' Heel" but your own personal "Magic Bullet" cures it...

 Being of Worth

Some guys no matter how hard they try, just can't get that charisma going, face to face. Instead of doing it from behind a computer, learn for...
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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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We all have varying degrees of tolerance for being criticized, and for how much, when, where and why to associate with coworkers, bosses and friends. As the world economy sputters and missteps - leaving many "trapped" in their current work environment - it sure would be handy to have a quick guide to recognizing the various brands of unavoidable criticism, while being aware of how to be a better, more constructive critic of others.

Perhaps one of the ultimate quotes for men on the topic of courage is that from Teddy Roosevelt's famous speech:

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How to Be Socially Viral, Face-to-Face

Some guys no matter how hard they try, just can't get that charisma going, face to face. Instead of doing it from behind a computer...It's not what you think - not "social networks," and nothing to do with the internet. Those aren't your real friends, obviously. They are entertainment, they are marketers (at least of themselves), and at best, acquaintances... until and if - and it's a big IF - you meet them in PERSON.

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The Anatomy of Communication With Women

Freud infamously said it first: "What do women WANT?" And even if the myth goes that this is the one thing he could not figure out, a very robust body of knowledge has been built up over the years in the field of psychoanalysis as to what really makes women tick psychologically. Now that Valentine's Day is over, we want to take a look at the literal anatomy of communication itself - to see what lessons it might offer you in terms of your effectiveness at attracting, dating, and if you so choose - finding a satisfying relationship to a woman who's worth doing so.

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Attracting Women in Costume

They say, clothes make the man, but what about when the clothes are "extreme?" Grab and keep their attention. A new view of attire...Some thoughts about Halloween holidays can turn us toward the effect of your attire - and costumes in particular, on your attractiveness to women.

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Oblivion - The "Rate-limiting Step" of Life

She may have been your first girlfriend, or she may have been a girl you met a few months ago. You've thought of her from time to time, but life is busy, and you've decided to move on with that, and get busy with it. Occasionally, it bothers you that you think of her at the most inopportune times, or have a dream about her. You'd thought you managed to forget, or come to the very logical conclusion that it's not convenient or healthy to harbor any more thoughts of her. But still, she won't let you go. Or maybe it's only the memory of her that won't.

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