Attracting Women

What women want in communication is different from what makes communication EFFECTIVE.

 Winning at Work

In the workplace and business, people do irrational things. Working with personality styles makes it easy to win...

 Being of Worth

Sometimes it's so subtle how you feel cut downs by women, or at work - your invisible personal boundary is the cure!
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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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Superhero Advice On Women and Work?

So much in life is confusing, illogical, and senseless."Why did I do that?" Superheroes know why...
 
So a guy walks into the office one Friday morning and there are security guards there. They just look blankly at him and he knows what it means – he’s been “sacked,” “downsized,” “terminated,” or essentially thrown out on his butt.
He doesn’t know why it happened, and what’s worse, he really doesn’t know what to do with the rest of his month let alone the rest of his day.

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Immediate Respect from Women and Strength at Work

All it is is a simple circle. That's what I started with. After hundreds and hundreds of pages of the psychiatry texts of my training, hardly ever were Personal Boundaries even mentioned. And yet they are the most powerful force (beyond our passions), and one of the only forces that make us HUMAN (as opposed to advanced animals.)

 

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The Anatomy of Communication With Women

Freud infamously said it first: "What do women WANT?" And even if the myth goes that this is the one thing he could not figure out, a very robust body of knowledge has been built up over the years in the field of psychoanalysis as to what really makes women tick psychologically. Now that Valentine's Day is over, we want to take a look at the literal anatomy of communication itself - to see what lessons it might offer you in terms of your effectiveness at attracting, dating, and if you so choose - finding a satisfying relationship to a woman who's worth doing so.

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How To Know If A Woman Likes You

A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.”

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Steve Jobs Dies

I'm not a technical person and I'm a woman, so technical gadgets etc. don't play a huge role in my life the way they do for many men, but I have to say that I LOVE my iphone like it's a living thing.  I have raved on to friends numerous times about my awe of the technology that Apple created/developed with that phone and the subsequent ipad etc.

I have also always admired how Apple not only withstood the onset of Microsoft all those years ago, but excelled by using innovation and creativity as its centrepiece. 

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