Attracting Women

Something I always wished existed, I'd like to provide you now...

 Winning at Work

Sometimes "giving up" on something is more powerful than "victory" at the moment...

 Being of Worth

The divide between boy-thinking and mature male thinking is deep but narrow. Get POWER instead...
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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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How to Know a "Strong" Woman From a "Weak" One

This is one of those subtle puzzles for men to solve. Not the kind of thing urgent enough to bother your friends with a conversation about it, but enough to have an uneasy feeling that you are going down the wrong road with a woman or in your dating. If you don't figure this one out though, years down the line you might be married to a "weak" woman, empower another one to rob you blind of funds, and all the while miss out on the truly "strong" women that you didn't even know you would have preferred, needed and prospered with all along.

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Being Respectful Does Not Mean Tolerating Bullies

I have something to say to you and you likely have felt it before but not had the words for it.

It's time to go back to basics and talk about something we almost never discuss on their lonesome - Personal Boundaries.

Let's begin with a recent news story - one of the many depicting men as "bad," "derelict," "shunning responsibility," "commitment phobic," or any of a number of other words or phrases that amount to none other than bullying.

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Secrets of a Female Arch Enemy

Every man comes face to face with the perfect storm of a woman behaving discourteously, the pressure of her peer group (on her side), the perils of gossip, reputation, and masculine identity in the workplace being fragile. What to do flawlessly to navigate the stormy waters...

I had a female Arch-Enemy until two nights ago, when a stunning and unexpected thing happened.

She APOLOGIZED.

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Once upon a time, men were friends, and they'd help each other for free. Today, everyone's a "Dating Guru" instead... I’d come back from London’s “Bootcamp,” but it was actually more of a Men’s Expedition to be honest.

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The Power of the "Underdog" Male

If you have ever been beaten down by life, rejected by a woman, fired, laid off, divorced, struck with a health problem, or some other challenge of life as a man - then you need to know THIS...

Some of you may have seen the film, Invictus, with Morgan Freeman and Matt Damon, but like me, you may never have heard of the poem on which it is based before.

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