Attracting Women

In a world of bad information, it is just not true that having men's "dating skills" is the same as actually understanding women's psychology...

 Winning at Work

Men struggle with an "Achilles' Heel" but your own personal "Magic Bullet" cures it...

 Being of Worth

Men work too hard for everyone but themselves, and have a life lesson or two to learn from Odysseus...
Paul Dobransky MD's picture

The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

shadow
Paul Dobransky MD's picture

The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

shadow

We all have varying degrees of tolerance for being criticized, and for how much, when, where and why to associate with coworkers, bosses and friends. As the world economy sputters and missteps - leaving many "trapped" in their current work environment - it sure would be handy to have a quick guide to recognizing the various brands of unavoidable criticism, while being aware of how to be a better, more constructive critic of others.

Perhaps one of the ultimate quotes for men on the topic of courage is that from Teddy Roosevelt's famous speech:

shadow
Paul Dobransky MD's picture

How to Be Sloppy and Still Win (With Women Too!)

It's been a long time since I religiously followed a sports team - probably as far back as the Pittsburgh Steelers of my childhood. They were an incredible sight to see, with the most exciting passing game known to man at the time in the form of receivers Lynn Swann and John Stallworth. Well those days have been gone for a long, long time. That is, until I discovered the NY Giants once I moved to New York City.

shadow
Paul Dobransky MD's picture

Women With Better Careers Than You

In today's job market you have either encountered this, or will soon. Women are graduating college far more than men, and holding the jobs...
Check out this article from the NY Post:
 ‘Women’s Divorce Cur$e’ By CATHY BURKE

shadow
Men's Psychology's picture

Oblivion - The "Rate-limiting Step" of Life

She may have been your first girlfriend, or she may have been a girl you met a few months ago. You've thought of her from time to time, but life is busy, and you've decided to move on with that, and get busy with it. Occasionally, it bothers you that you think of her at the most inopportune times, or have a dream about her. You'd thought you managed to forget, or come to the very logical conclusion that it's not convenient or healthy to harbor any more thoughts of her. But still, she won't let you go. Or maybe it's only the memory of her that won't.

shadow
Men's Psychology's picture

Women No Longer Admire Men

Maybe you have at some point had a breakup. No, for sure at some point you've had a breakup, whether it's a divorce or simply the end of a string of dates. And leading up to that point you've felt a distance from her, a disrespect certainly or even a disdain.

shadow