"Fitness Indicators" To Pass All Her "Tests"

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One of the all-time most popular items surrounding women and dating is the notion that they TEST us as men. Given that men are driven by a hunger for technology, we all want to know the latest of the latest not just in terms of cars or computers, but “social technology” too!
Well, this week’s blog is about the subject of what evolutionary psychologists call “fitness indicators,” and my own technology related to male and female instincts surrounding dating – the stuff of the Omega Male Program that so many of you have.
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The Three Universal Ways to Pass Women's Tests
This week’s blog is going to be about women’s tests, how to pass them, but how to do so without either offending THEM, or having them lose interest in YOU.
It has to do with your ability to read where in the dating, attraction and courtship process you are that testing arises, and once it does, understand that the woman’s mind is simply looking for what evolutionary psychologists call “fitness indicators” – meaning, the qualities you have as a man that indicate you would be a good mate, a good partner in life, and a good father.
As you are going to learn in this week’s Mission, the three general responses to a woman’s tests are:
1. Say NO.
2. Nonresponse entirely. Keep composure and say and do NOTHING.
3. Lead and Transition. Change the subject AND take charge!
 
If you have the Omega Male Program, then you know there are four general kinds of tests that women throw at you. Regardless of which category though, there are some general rules and moves that can be useful.
 
The First Skill to Have
First off, having the Observing Ego I always talking about is essential. This is covered in the Omega of course, and much more extensively in the MindOS Mastery Course.
Observing Ego is the skill at getting present minded, PAYING ATTENTION to yourself and your surroundings – a kind of social “common sense” or “being cool” – then being a kind of coach or big brother to yourself, advising yourself as you socialize.
If you do this, then you realize you can’t just go “on autopilot” with women. You have to think, and do things on purpose.
In the MindOS Program, we talk about how the very notion of the word "cool" rests in "doing and saying the right thing in the right way at the right time." This being the case, it makes sense that when "being tested," one wants to "keep his cool," which is to say, his "composure." When he has a "cool head," doesn't "lose his cool," and the like, he is being alert, paying attention to his own behavior, and that in the environment surrounding him.
If you are using Observing Ego, you are using the only learned human skill that affords the ability to change and grow. It is the very capacity to look back at ourselves, comment to ourselves about how we are doing, and adjust our behavior to be more matching the environment, more attuned to it. In that state, we are then doing the same things which we called "being cool."
Which is to say that women test you, the very first is the capacity to keep your self-control, "keep your cool," and "be cool."
Being cool is one and the same as Observing Ego skill, which is the first requirement of passing a woman's tests.
 
The Four Types of Women's Tests
On three occasions this weekend, go ahead and notice with your Observing Ego when women are throwing you TESTS.
These tests come in four general varieties which I share in the Omega Male Program. In essence, they are automatically helping the woman's UNCONSCIOUS assess your degree of masculinity, and maturity of character - the things which tell her that you are both potent (capable of siring children) and good in bed, but then again, likely to be a resource to her for the long term, the type of man to stick around should she become pregnant, and finally, also a good father.  The degree of maturity of character you have addresses the latter items.
Again, from MindOS, there is a feature of your character maturity which will help you pass many of the four types of test: the Personal Boundary.
Your boundary is what lets you set preferences for what you like and dislike, lets you respect yourself and her too, and gives you the strength and autonomy to say NO when you disagree, or to say nothing at all.
Pass tests in one of three ways, knowing these to be the three general strategies:
 
1. Say NO.
When she asks if you will buy her a drink, say no. When she asks if you are a Dork, say NO, you are. When she asks if you mind if she talks to other guys while hanging out, say NO, but then walk away before she can. This is a prime use of a Personal Boundary. You will then pass the test.
 
2. Nonresponse.
When another guy approaches her, block and ignore him. When she says something off-putting, utterly ignore it. When she makes a comment or challenge and you are looking in each other’s eyes, say nothing until she looks away, as if it was a ridiculous question. This is also a use of your Personal Boundary, because what is contained in it, including your self-esteem and opinions, belongs to you and only you. You don't have to converse with, reveal opinions to, and "defend yourself" against the insults or accusations of a woman testing you. Good boundaries means you pass.
 
3. Lead and Transition.
When the conversation tapers off and she is waiting for you to be a man of action, LEAD. Take her by the hand and say you want to show her something even if you don’t know what you’re going to show her. Improvise. When she challenges you on a politically incorrect topic to see if you will kowtow to the social norm (men are buffoons), change topics and lead it into something fun and interesting instead. When she says, “I don’t like your hat. It doesn’t fit you,” say, “Come and meet my friends.” (which both ignores the comment, AND leads.)
Lead in conversation, in physicality, and in social associations. And when the conversation is at a dead-end, a brick wall, it's your prerogative to not address the test it all. Or to purposely steer it to something you can answer or want to answer, or better yet, are more interested in.
Doing so with a fun and friendly attitude tends to work best to smooth a transition in communication, because communication is half "data," but also half emotions.  Friendly emotions get you more toward harmony and acceptance with the woman.
Ironically, by not even addressing a test, you have also in effect, passed.
 
Fitness Indicators
Why do women do these tests? Part of the answer is that they do not do them purposely. They, themselves most often don't even know they are "testing men." They think they are just engaged in learning about what you are as a man, and trying to have a conversation.

This is all in the Omega Male Program.
If you noticed some of the features of being a desirable male, below, you'd then see how and why their tests are needed, and important to finding compatibility and mutual attraction.
Scientists have argued for decades whether we evolve through possessing more "survival traits" than others, such as a healthy immune system, muscularity that aided hunting and foraging for food, as well as fending off attackers.
Still, others express the belief that the WAY WE COURT the other gender adds up to more power in passing on our genes (and in practical terms, being considered attractive to women.)
As with much of life, the answer is most likely, BOTH.
We have to physically survive in order to reach an age where we could reproduce. and from there, we then need to attract a mate.
As the environment evolves more rapidly than our own biology - today's need to be computer literate for example, and the equality of the sexes (women don't need men anymore to make an income and live a good life) - our inner psychological qualities as men matter more and more every day as compared with our ancestors.
Our ability at humor, wit, attire, body language fluidity, conversational aptitude, and other, invisible traits of being a full integrated adult man.
Yet by learning the steps and phases of courtship, you can step in to interrupt these facts with real fitness.
Be aware of these, and your own qualifications in them, and you will actually be well on your way to having "beaten genetics" as it were.  You'll be doing all the right things, but ON PURPOSE..

Again, anything and everything about relating to women is in the Omega Male Program.