Raise Her Self-esteem and Boost Your Masculinity in One Move

You can learn to boost her self-esteem and raise your level of masculinity in one single move. It's all over when you do this...
If there’s anything we cover DEEPLY in the new Mature Masculine Power Program, it’s the intimate anatomy of what I call the “Circuits of Masculinity.”
These are literally like being a superhero and having some “special powers” or a “utility belt” – only in this case, they are REAL tools to use in your very REAL life.
One of the things I notice about the original theory I put forth over a decade ago – MindOS – is that it’s the “gift that keeps on giving.” Never a month goes by that there is not some other little nuanced explanation of human behavior that comes out of it.
In this case I was thinking about what it’s like when you are with a woman and you are either trying to assess HER level of self-esteem, or YOUR level of self-esteem needs to be amplified to get things going better.
Or to simply be happy with each other, whether single or on a date.
Well those of you who have studied the ins and outs of self-esteem in MindOS Mastery...
…know that self-esteem is made up of two things I describe in what I term, “The E=mc2 of Psychology.”  They are made of Well-being – a sense of nurturing, that your needs are met – and Confidence – a sense of action-taking where you know you can handle what comes your way.
It struck me that a lot of guys have trouble with “perfectionism,” too, where they always seem to have a problem with two things:
    1.    Celebrating
    2.    Gratefulness (Gratitude)
It turns out you can use this to your advantage in helping BOTH the woman have a better time, in higher self-esteem, AND YOURSELF to be more effective at attraction due to a boost of masculinity you get when I show you how to use this:
A combination of the MindOS material and the new MMP material…
If you have MindOS, then you definitely know what self-esteem is, how to boost it, build it, and create it from scratch.
But our friends have self-esteem and raise our own. This doesn't mean we are attracted to them sexually or that they are to us.
Instead, we need to be concerned with MASCULINITY.
 
The "Circuits" of Masculinity
In there, we learn about the Masculine Power Instincts, such as the Bacchus Circuit and the Hermes Circuit.
What these will lead to you is that for every boost of self-esteem we get from others, there is actually an expected, appropriate, diplomatic, mature, high-character response (which as you know, results in even more attraction with a woman, because they are in part, attracted to high CHARACTER...)
This means that GRATITUDE AND CELEBRATION are actually "social currencies" we have never recognized before. They make you more attractive as a man, and promote more self-esteem in both yourself and the woman of interest.
 
Gratitude
When someone does something nice for you, it is a often something you really NEED.  Getting your needs met causes you to feel a boost of Well-being, lowering any sadness or anger you have.
Since this is a gift, a win/win situation we are after, what would it then be on your part to make sure a win/win arrangement happens?
Well, you say thank you, expressing gratitude to the person.
GRATITUDE IS THE EXPECTED RESPONSE TO A BOOST OF WELL-BEING.
Yet what about when you are alone? Going out on the town alone, staying at home alone, or simply being at work and feeling bad?
You have MEMORIES to rely on.
Within the memories of your past, both recent and remote, there are TONS of episodes in which someone was kind to you, the world was kind to you, or unfortunate for many today that they can be so few and far between - perhaps YOU were kind to YOU.
It's only half an interaction if you are alone, and yet we are always saying in MindOS that we're after WIN/WIN situations.
How can we accomplish this ALONE?
Easy - we can choose the high character habit of GRATITUDE both in our heads and expressed to the world at large (hint, hint, especially to women...)
One of the amazing things about exhibiting and feeling the features of high character that I cover in MindOS is that it can trigger NEW EMOTIONAL ENERGY based simply on the repetition or reinterpretation of that data we all have an endless supply of: MEMORY.
So you literally can brighten a woman's day or your own, with Gratitude, and see both of you elevating in self-esteem.
This leads to more friendship feelings in a romance, but there's more...
The ancient Greek god of thankfulness was Hermes - in doing so to Zeus, he was awarded the ability to be speedy in communication, and transit back and forth between the underworld (the unconscious) and the world of the living (consciousness.)
In other words, thankfulness lets us access our own unconscious, bringing out new gifts and abilities, good feelings when we thought there were none presently.
And when you make use of the primitive instincts of masculinity (such as the features of Hermes), you AUTOMATICALLY MASCULINIZE.
So you massively increase attraction in dating a woman in the emotional sense with gratitude - friendship - but you ALSO massively increase the SEXUAL attraction with her too, through using the instincts of Hermes, the great communicator.
 
Celebration
Have you ever been in a situation where you just WON something?  It's time to be HONORED for that, and to CELEBRATE.
But depending on whom you are with, depressed people, sad or anxious or unfriendly people, pessimists - they can really through a "wet blanket" on your mood and would-be celebration.
You really want to get away from them before the moment is gone and you, too, are sad and depressed when you really ought to be celebrating all that's great about you.
Well this is how a woman feels about you when she is at a time of victory, boldness, or CONFIDENCE (the "other" part of Self-esteem)...
It's also true that when we are worried or anxious, the perfect healing salve is the habit of CELEBRATION.
Celebration is the expected response to when someone ELSE is a giver, raising YOUR level of Confidence about yourself or a situation. In fact, think about the word, "encouragement."
To EN-courage someone is to boost their courage, and as we all know from the Anxiety Map of the MindOS Mastery Course, courage always, always, always results in improved Confidence for a person.
We can go into our own memories again to boost our own Confidence levels and that of others - through remembering times when we were victorious, where we were courageous, or where someone else EN-couraged US.
It turns out again that there's more for you than the emotional attraction in friendship that boosting a woman's Confidence (and your own) produces...
The ancient Greek god, Bacchus, was in charge of CELEBRATION, drama, and festivity.
And if you have ever been in a mood to celebrate and a woman shut you down, you know what I am talking about - you don't just feel unhappy with this. You feel LIKE LESS OF A MAN.
Say you just WON a contest in sports or landed a new job that's thrilling.  If the woman you are with gives you the smack-down right when you should be celebrating, it wounds to the bone.
You are less of a man, less masculine.
So don't do that to her or yourself.
Honor both the Self-esteem of Confidence toward your mutual friendship and happiness, and honor the masculinity in you too, by celebrating your every victory, and more...
...your every MEMORY of victories.
It will make you better friends with women, and more sexually attractive as a man of high masculinity.
Those of us who are perfectionists may know this well - they have trouble appreciating things, having gratefulness and gratitude, and celebrating life.
The poor boundaries that encourage this are in part, a draining away of self-esteem, and in part, an obliviousness about the sources and mastery of the masculine instincts - the Power Instincts of Hermes and Bacchus in this case.
Cultivate these through the MindOS, Mature Masculine Power and other programs of ours, and get your two kinds of attraction going in SYNCHRONY!
They are at the course descriptions, HERE.