The Number One Sexual Attractor

On the way to Berlin and London to train men at how to attract and date quality women who are right for them, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology. In fact, the results were so rigorous and convincing that it seemed that they would surely shoot holes in what I was about to teach. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in the area, to actually have some control and power over their lives. What a downer it would be to find that two genetic or physical features of one's constitution matter more than anything else.
One was a relatively large attractor, though not the top one, and it is sheer physical height. Whew. Lucky me.
The other I had always suspected was a major force, though it would be bad news for a little over fifty percent of the world's population. I learned it from colleague and evolutionary psychologist, Geoffrey Miller, Ph.D. He is quite insistent that it outpaces any other technique or move, and even physical features such as height.
It's General Intelligence - the ultimate attractor of women and aphrodisiac.
Now that I've completed the training and am back home in time to launch our new Masculine Intelligence in Breaking Up (Or Win Her Back) Program, it's easy to agree with Geoff's assertion, but there's a far deeper and more detailed reason that also carries an opportunity for skill-building.
Breakups were a common theme among these men, but a few of them had also been poisoned by homespun advice from "dating teachers" who taught only tricks and tips that had sometimes worked in the dating lives of said teachers. Things like being boastful, confusing, or even encouraging a woman to doubt her value in the dating pool, being touchy with women and this sort of thing.
A lot of it sounded - well - unintelligent, given that Dr. Miller's words were still on my mind. So I concluded that when the advice of dating gurus is used in an intelligent, witty, smooth way, it might work in a particular case or two. But when used unintelligently, it would never, ever work to attract a woman.
One case in point is the advice to immediately start touching women upon meeting, to be very "touchy" and forward with them. Again, this sounded like an unintelligent move. How many women will be offended, turned off, or even alarmed for their safety? The dating guru never addressed how the woman would feel.
It was not lost on me that the slogan we use to describe our programs centers on the phrase, "Masculine intelligence."
It turns out this is the answer to everything you have ever wondered about women and sexual attraction - the answer is "being mysterious" toward women as the number one sexual attractor.
There is a definite reason for this that is centered in the female developmental stages, and fully covered in the Omega Male Program on all of human courtship's steps.
For now, what we need to know is that women respond most robustly, most vigorously, and largely unconsciously to a man who arouses questions in their minds - a curiosity about why he does and says what he does, what makes him tick, why he is in the venue, what his body language means, whether he will be a good partner in bed or more importantly, a fit mate potentially.
It all comes down to a curiosity about what, how, where, and why, why why. So the "intelligent" way to approach women is not just in doing slick moves that worked for another man in his limited experience, but in the science that explains in an ironclad way what really is universal about women and their prime core attraction mechanism.
When a man does "dating coach advice" toward women in his conversation or body language, it's risky. If done WITHOUT mysteriousness, or a mode which causes her to be curious, their techniques will not at all work in any instance. But even their techniques will work if the student of attraction approaches women with an air of mystery that incites curiosity.
So it isn't the specific "moves" you see. It's that they are delivered with mysteriousness. So when you make a comment, or have body language, or the social status of numerous friends around, or say something ambiguous - whatever it is doesn't matter, so long as it causes the woman to be curious about you.
That's the prime core attractor of women.
Now then, if you are a guy who has been through a breakup, worries about a breakup, or is about to go through a breakup, I want to do something special for you.
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Enjoy! And see you for the second step of attraction tomorrow!
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Can It Backfire?
Is there a point where intelligence can hinder your results with women?
As for relationships go, I wait out for the women who can keep up in conversation. However, Sometimes I just want to have fun with the woman for a while.
Unfortunately I get the glazed-eye, your-talking-over-my-head look WAY more than more than not from both men and women. Even when I am going out of my way to "dumb it down".
Is that normal?
Well said...
Thank you for this. It's a great story for men, and I just saw "Allen Gregory" the new show for the first time. It made me think of your situation and also of the topic of bullying at school. I think it's one of the most important services to do for men - to educate about bullying and stopping it, when men have an instinct to not complain or draw attention when they themselves have been bullied.
Mysteriousness
Interested in your thoughts!
Rembering the pain of being the short , shy guy in school
I have just read Dr. Paul's article on the new findings in evolutionary psychology regarding sexual attractors in men. It was no surprise to me to find that height is universally attractive to women. This of course is genetic and so is out of anyone's natural control. But it was fascinating to find that Dr. Paul is validated in his teaching of how "mysteriousness" is much more important as a sexual attractor and in maintaining that sexual attractiveness. There is HOPE for us "short people."
I was 17 years old in 1977 when the song "Short People" came out. It was of course a satire but all I remembered was the opening lines..."short people have no reson to live." I was only 5 ft 6 inches tall and felt invisible, as I watched my friends growing taller and becoming successful with women and dating. So it was very painful and I just decided to concentrate on school work where I felt a secret passion for learning and a curiosity even then about psychology from reading self help books.
Ironically it took a failed marriage some 26 years later before I started to explore the possibility that I was missing the big picture about women. They were not goddesses I had finally discovered. So of course with that revelation I was able to develop the courage to date again, armed with KNOWLEDGE and OBSERVING EGO, and willing to face failure knowing it would STRENGTHEN MY BOUNDARY. It is only recently that I have been able to FINE TUNE what is mysterious about me rather than adopting the techniques's of magician guru's who teach things such as "pea-cocking."
This brings my thoughts to Geoffrey Miller and evolutionary psychology. I will leave it at that but what he says about "why the higher brain developed" and "why it developed" was very enlightening for a short person to know. It has to do with "Intelligence as a Sexual Attractor" and why women are naturally drawn to this intelligence when used mysteriously.