The Number One Sexual Attractor

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Submitted by Men's Psychology on Thu, 10/20/2011 - 14:15
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The Number One Sexual Attractor

On the way to Berlin and London to train men at how to attract and date quality women who are right for them, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology. In fact, the results were so rigorous and convincing that it seemed that they would surely shoot holes in what I was about to teach. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in the area, to actually have some control and power over their lives.

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package?

Submitted by ar96 on Thu, 09/06/2012 - 10:30.

So if you buy the omega man, you'll get this as well:

http://www.menspsychology.com/courses/masculine-intelligence™-in-breaking-up-or-win-her-back

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Can It Backfire?

Submitted by vongimbel on Wed, 12/07/2011 - 19:19.

Is there a point where intelligence can hinder your results with women?

As for relationships go, I wait out for the women who can keep up in conversation. However, Sometimes I just want to have fun with the woman for a while.

Unfortunately I get the glazed-eye, your-talking-over-my-head look WAY more than more than not from both men and women. Even when I am going out of my way to "dumb it down".

Is that normal?

Well said...

Submitted by Paul Dobransky MD on Sun, 11/20/2011 - 23:46.

Thank you for this. It's a great story for men, and I just saw "Allen Gregory" the new show for the first time. It made me think of your situation and also of the topic of bullying at school. I think it's one of the most important services to do for men - to educate about bullying and stopping it, when men have an instinct to not complain or draw attention when they themselves have been bullied.

Mysteriousness

Submitted by Paul Dobransky MD on Mon, 10/24/2011 - 02:19.

Interested in your thoughts!

Rembering the pain of being the short , shy guy in school

Submitted by calcjl on Sat, 10/29/2011 - 09:46.

I have just read Dr. Paul's article on the new findings in evolutionary psychology regarding sexual attractors in men. It was no surprise to me to find that height is universally attractive to women. This of course is genetic and so is out of anyone's natural control. But it was fascinating to find that Dr. Paul is validated in his teaching of how "mysteriousness" is much more important as a sexual attractor and in maintaining that sexual attractiveness. There is HOPE for us "short people."

I was 17 years old in 1977 when the song "Short People" came out. It was of course a satire but all I remembered was the opening lines..."short people have no reson to live." I was only 5 ft 6 inches tall and felt invisible, as I watched my friends growing taller and becoming successful with women and dating. So it was very painful and I just decided to concentrate on school work where I felt a secret passion for learning and a curiosity even then about psychology from reading self help books.

Ironically it took a failed marriage some 26 years later before I started to explore the possibility that I was missing the big picture about women. They were not goddesses I had finally discovered. So of course with that revelation I was able to develop the courage to date again, armed with KNOWLEDGE and OBSERVING EGO, and willing to face failure knowing it would STRENGTHEN MY BOUNDARY. It is only recently that I have been able to FINE TUNE what is mysterious about me rather than adopting the techniques's of magician guru's who teach things such as "pea-cocking."

This brings my thoughts to Geoffrey Miller and evolutionary psychology. I will leave it at that but what he says about "why the higher brain developed" and "why it developed" was very enlightening for a short person to know. It has to do with "Intelligence as a Sexual Attractor" and why women are naturally drawn to this intelligence when used mysteriously.