Being a Man

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You Can't Afford "Surprises"

Don't be one of those guys who is "caught with his pants down" when there are layoffs or the girlfriend with the wandering eye wanders into the arms of another man.
In the past couple of weeks I’ve had one friend get “surprised” by a layoff from work, a second one “surprised” by a sudden demand by his girlfriend that they move in together “or else,” and a third get “surprised” by his seven year wife announcing she wants a divorce.

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It seems like even Soul legends and sex symbols such as D'Angelo can feel a sense of inadequacy from time to time.

This article reveals that the great savior of U.S. soul and owner of a body women drooled over is now having problems living up to his stud status.

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Secret-agent Comedian Skills

It's been quite a few years now that I've been helping men with specifically "man-problems" using "man-language" and in a way that specifically builds their lives as men.

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The Secret Psychology of James Bond

This is exactly how to BE Bond. Some may say that two markers of his essence are that he is as equally good with women as he is with a gun. But villains may be skilled with both women and guns.

There's more to Bond than just that. He has a duty, ethics and incredible responsibility, but can be anything but conventional in carrying them out. This is not to say that he just bends the rules or has flexible ethics, but instead to say that he is fully capable of running on impulse, using his gut, and still never losing sight of his, and his country's noble end goals.

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The Power of Hypnosis and "Men of Straw"

After so many years of teaching men stories that explain our psychology, the one at the core of it all - The Count of Monte Cristo - still continues to inspire new ideas. What a surprise to hear that perhaps the greatest mentor to men in history - Abbe Faria - from the same work, was based on a real figure from psychology before it became psychology.

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If You "Really Want It," You Have to "Know It"

Men's identities are very entwined with their ambitions, the building blocks of their career missions. Yet as men the world over all know, the road to major success is littered with minor failures. For those men for whom nothing less than perfection will do, it's crucial to decode these psychological obstacles in your way. We can do this with some very simple rules.

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The Secrets, the Skills, and the Heroic Save

Back from New York and another successful bootcamp for men on attraction and dating, and there is so much to do. For one, there is another bootcamp in Chicago to immediately get charged up for, and for another, there are no less than two new awesome training programs for men, and a remarkable new intellectually advanced On Demand Plus+ Membership we've just launched (hint: next session, TODAY at 5pm CST).

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