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How Female Friends Boost Your Game

The topic of friendship in general has been on my mind all month - and given that for the first time ever we are putting on a COMBINED, COED dating and attraction bootcamp for men and women this week - I thought that we'd dig into the nuts and bolts of the concept of taking on a "Wingwoman."

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How To Know If A Woman Likes You

A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.”

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Can "Partying Down" Save Your Life?

One of the main principles of personal growth and maturity we tend to talk about at Men's Psychology has been that of "win/win" thinking and behavior. This kind of fairness to others and to yourself - respecting others while being self-respecting and honoring others while honoring yourself - can be a tricky balance to find.

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How to Keep Your Power Around a Woman

Many men fall victim to peer pressure or gossip pressure around women and are too quick to surrender power, allow lowered self-esteem, masculinity, or agree to what you don't agree with. Here's how to stop that surrender in its tracks...

The news comes in more and more in support of what you already know inside, instinctively.

I have two things to share with you today – one, a new research finding, and two, a conversation with a man who’s wild about evolutionary psychology.

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The Ultimate Tip for Going Out Alone

If you are like many men, you detest going out alone socially. Turn the situation on its end, and discover that going out alone is what you ought to have done all along to find success!

I’ve never put out the full story on what exactly happens psychologically for a guy deciding on going out alone - going "stag."

It’s about time, because that’s one of the most frequent questions I get asked – is it better to go out alone? Or with a “wingman?”

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Q: After relocating a year ago, I have been dating a woman for the last 8 months. We got along well initially, but from the beginning I told her that I was not able to commit to a long-term relationship. I felt I hadn't had enough freedom to grow and haven't dated enough in my life. So this past weekend I called it quits. And now, I feel terrible. I'm conflicted because in so many ways she's a match for me, and at the same time, I'm new to the city and want to explore.

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The American holiday, Thanksgiving, has just passed - a time for doing just as it sounds: expressing thanks for what you have in your life, and your relationships. Whether or not you celebrate this holiday, my guess would be that at some time in the past few months you wondered about an aspect of being with a woman for which there is very little advice, instruction or solid, step-by-step actions to take:

What does a woman's capacity to celebrate, and to have gratitude (for YOU) mean about her, and mean about you?

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