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Crucial Phrases for Men - With Women and Work

I have a very odd friend. He texts people to ask if they would like to meet up to do some social events, and he writes to them such things as, "I'd be delighted if you could join me at..." The same evening or at the latest, the next morning, he tells them "what a great pleasure it was to meet up." Wait. Maybe the fact that he does this is not "typical," but perhaps it's what "normal" really is, or should be. At the very least, it is a habit of courtesy, and at its best, it's very POWERFUL.

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Freedom = Masculinity

Since You're Receiving Our "Masculine Intelligence Tip Sheet," I Forgot to Make Sure You Have What I Promised...

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The Damages of Waiting (for Anything)

Before we even dare the topic of perhaps the most insidious, silent killer of a man's dreams, a proviso: It is good and necessary to wait when patience is called for. By laying out the destructive anatomy of those of us to tend to wait too long, to let opportunity pass us by, to wait just to wait, or out of passiveness, or out of fear, I'm not giving you an excuse to be impatient. Seizing opportunity is very different from being impatient or impulsive.

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From Secret Loneliness to Public Power

It's said that being alone does not have to be lonely. In fact, being alone and building your life is one of the greatest masculinizing experiences a man can have.

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The American holiday, Thanksgiving, has just passed - a time for doing just as it sounds: expressing thanks for what you have in your life, and your relationships. Whether or not you celebrate this holiday, my guess would be that at some time in the past few months you wondered about an aspect of being with a woman for which there is very little advice, instruction or solid, step-by-step actions to take:

What does a woman's capacity to celebrate, and to have gratitude (for YOU) mean about her, and mean about you?

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I wish I found this stuff back in 2005 after I graduated college and needed it the most. You see, I had almost no success with women until I studied David D’s e-book and eventually worked up the confidence to meet a nice girl, fell in love, and got married. As our relationship progressed she became more and more emotionally unstable.

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Women who argue with you may be more interested in being right, than happy.

When women BLAME you for something going wrong in your relationship, on your date, or in THEIR lives, it can be tempting to feel bad about that.

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