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"Fitness Indicators" To Pass All Her "Tests"

Men worry about having enough money, being tall enough, fit enough, hairy enough and strong enough "to be her man." What secretly appeals about your physical look may surprise you...
One of the all-time most popular items surrounding women and dating is the notion that they TEST us as men. Given that men are driven by a hunger for technology, we all want to know the latest of the latest not just in terms of cars or computers, but “social technology” too!

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Dr Paul, first and foremost I would like to thank you for you wisdom and guidance. I heeded your advice and things have progressed.
The book how to fall out of love by Deborah Phillips was helpful and I have followed it to the letter as you suggested. I even gave the book to my DR for review and he was appreciative.

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How to Be Sloppy and Still Win (With Women Too!)

It's been a long time since I religiously followed a sports team - probably as far back as the Pittsburgh Steelers of my childhood. They were an incredible sight to see, with the most exciting passing game known to man at the time in the form of receivers Lynn Swann and John Stallworth. Well those days have been gone for a long, long time. That is, until I discovered the NY Giants once I moved to New York City.

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If You "Really Want It," You Have to "Know It"

Men's identities are very entwined with their ambitions, the building blocks of their career missions. Yet as men the world over all know, the road to major success is littered with minor failures. For those men for whom nothing less than perfection will do, it's crucial to decode these psychological obstacles in your way. We can do this with some very simple rules.

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Being a Man of Inaction

We just finished another bootcamp for men in Chicago and are about to head to New York City for another one for men this friday-saturday, and I have to tell you how one thing strikes me: so often, men think that they have to be perfect in so many ways - perfect at their dating skills, finding the perfect woman to marry, and after a tough time of a long relationship or the absence of a dating life on the other end of the spectrum, many rubber-band to the opposite of what t

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A lot has been written in recent years about how to approach women. It seems at some point between 1985 and 1999, men in America and elsewhere completely forgot how to go out on the town with friends, have fun, and meet a few girls along the way. In the last several years, the rules seem to have changed.

Or have they?  Well, not really, if you remember just four simple things when you go out. They're easy to remember and the kinds of things that a wise older brother (or astute parent) might have told you:

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Ever notice that good things only seem to happen to OTHER GUYS? It's not that they are luckier. Notice opportunity then capitalize on it!
They often use phrases like “my dream job” or “a girl like that doesn’t come along every day…”
And they are dreamers.
Sometimes the dreamers out there get seduced by their fantasies though, and prefer to LIVE IN them rather than entering the real world to engage it as men.

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