Attracting Women

Men worry about having enough money, being tall enough, fit enough, hairy enough and strong enough "to be her man." What secretly appeals about your physical look may surprise you...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

What to do when she's done wrong, or you've done wrong, to know that you know that you've done EVERYTHING you can to be fair, right,...

The New Technology of Sexual Chemistry


Dr. Paul Dobransky



Many a guy out there really wishes that a woman he is with could understand male thinking, male needs, objectives, and masculinity itself. Even guys who are in the dating mode and meet new women regularly can be turned off, put off, or otherwise disqualify an otherwise great woman from being a potential romantic candidate just because she has never had the chance to truly learn about how men think.

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Many women I talk to really tend to dislike Charlie Sheen, much more so than the men I talk to. What is it about him that drives these women nuts? Or better yet what positive qualities does he have? He is in no way a role model or on the right path exactly but he definitely has some positive qualities. He just doesn’t project them in a way that blows a woman’s mind (at least in a positive way).

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Roving Bands of Female Monsters - What to Do

I can’t say this has happened regularly to me in my years, but this time, I have to call it what it is: an encounter with a roving band of seriously monstrous women…

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The Power of the 'Stache

The question - to shave or not to shave? From a woman’s perspective, facial hair can be as sexy and personal as a man would like to make it. I grew up on Long Island and have spent my life traveling to New York City. I've identified two facial hair types, both equally attractive to women, but distinctive. I'll call them the Manhattan or and the Brooklyn.

The Manhattan

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Honoring Your Genes

This past Father's Day I took the time to go and visit my Dad's grave at Fort Snelling National Cemetery. When you go to a national cemetery, you see rows and row of white headstones that mark a place and a time of someone who has gone.  My Dad died when I was 18 years old, and I don’t remember much about it, other than that I could feel when it was over for him.



‘Taking the drop’ is one of the ways that surfers describe the action of paddling into an onrushing wave right at the moment it jacks up behind them. It’s the do or die moment when the surfer must leap to their feet as the water disappears from under them, and for an instant they ‘drop’ through the air before the board engages with the water and the surfer begins their exhilarating ride on the wave.