Attracting Women

Every city claims to be "the most attractive city for singles." Blah, blah, blah...the answer is London!!

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

Men struggle with an "Achilles' Heel" but your own personal "Magic Bullet" cures it...
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How To Know If A Woman Likes You

A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.”


A lot has been written in recent years about how to approach women. It seems at some point between 1985 and 1999, men in America and elsewhere completely forgot how to go out on the town with friends, have fun, and meet a few girls along the way. In the last several years, the rules seem to have changed.

Or have they?  Well, not really, if you remember just four simple things when you go out. They're easy to remember and the kinds of things that a wise older brother (or astute parent) might have told you:

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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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Being Respectful Does Not Mean Tolerating Bullies

I have something to say to you and you likely have felt it before but not had the words for it.

It's time to go back to basics and talk about something we almost never discuss on their lonesome - Personal Boundaries.

Let's begin with a recent news story - one of the many depicting men as "bad," "derelict," "shunning responsibility," "commitment phobic," or any of a number of other words or phrases that amount to none other than bullying.

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How to Be Socially Viral, Face-to-Face

Some guys no matter how hard they try, just can't get that charisma going, face to face. Instead of doing it from behind a computer...It's not what you think - not "social networks," and nothing to do with the internet. Those aren't your real friends, obviously. They are entertainment, they are marketers (at least of themselves), and at best, acquaintances... until and if - and it's a big IF - you meet them in PERSON.

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The Secret Science Behind Kissing

Nobody would guess that the prime reward for women the world over who indulge in romance novels and Disney fairy tales (all of them) - is also perhaps the very least talked-about subject among men.

It's no surprise. It's "kissing."

Few men would have the fortitude to discuss the most sought-after romantic reward to the minds of women among themselves, but being in the midst of an official, science-based program for men on attraction and dating gave us that very opportunity.

And wow did it pay off for our students.


Maybe you are a guy who has been searching for "that one thing" you could change to have better attraction and dating with women.
It turns out that there is one amazing skill you have, which we could lock eyes on as a universal concept that ultimately makes you sink or swim with women.
Here it is, in different words:
All dating and relationship problems are communication problems.
Think about that.