Attracting Women

Many a man finds himself defensive with a woman when the transition is upon us - the change from casual to committed in love, the choice between a better job and a better woman, and that raise and promotion versus not rocking the boat of friendship with one. Here's how to stop defensiveness in its tracks...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

This icon of technology, creativity and innovation leaves a gaping hole in the culture...
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"Dating Skills" Can't Touch Courtship Skills

Anybody and everybody is a "dating expert" these days, from a guy who's had "a few good dates" to the guy who looks like Fabio...
There is something major coming your way within a month – something I am going to flat out give to you with my compliments - but I have to get you ready for it. Let’s have some background.

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What You Owe Yourself as a Man

As a guy, you spend a lot of your time helping others (or being commanded by others.) Now is the time to remember - always - what you will always owe yourself.
There’s a special thing that happens over time when you use these systems for personal growth that we provide you.
It doesn’t matter how well you know them. With enough time, you notice new aha’s, new insights, because of the things that happen to you in everyday life.
It happened to me again recently.

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Secrets of a Female Arch Enemy

Every man comes face to face with the perfect storm of a woman behaving discourteously, the pressure of her peer group (on her side), the perils of gossip, reputation, and masculine identity in the workplace being fragile. What to do flawlessly to navigate the stormy waters...

I had a female Arch-Enemy until two nights ago, when a stunning and unexpected thing happened.

She APOLOGIZED.

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The Only Real Science of Hope and "Optimism"

It's been a real juggernaut of personal growth technology lately for Men's Psychology Magazine, and we've diverted from the pure dating and relationship material for men for a few weeks (maybe we are overcompensating for the high-intensity programs about to happen in Berlin and London in the next few weeks - all about women, meeting them, communicating, body language, reading their behavior, attracting them, dating them, selecting them for fit to your life, deciding on girlfri

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The Four Levels of Leo DiCaprio's Mind

I’m going to assume that by now many of you have seen the mind-bending movie, Inception, with Leo DiCaprio

I was whetting your appetite for Inception in last week's newsletter, and implied that there is something pretty profound in there for you to learn, not just about your dating life, but your own personal growth too.

It’s true.

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A lot has been written in recent years about how to approach women. It seems at some point between 1985 and 1999, men in America and elsewhere completely forgot how to go out on the town with friends, have fun, and meet a few girls along the way. In the last several years, the rules seem to have changed.

Or have they?  Well, not really, if you remember just four simple things when you go out. They're easy to remember and the kinds of things that a wise older brother (or astute parent) might have told you:

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Couples usually wait until six to eight dates before they are willing to enter into an exclusive relationship.

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