Attracting Women

A complete approach to "winning her back" or "getting over her"...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

If you've ever wondered why the juicy gossip stories almost never accurately reflect the man's side, this one is for you...
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Completely Understand a Woman's Emotions

Have you ever been in one of those predicaments where you wanted to connect with a woman and couldn't, but it wasn't about tripping over your words? It was more about her just not seeming to understand you. She just didn't seem to get it.

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The Gordian Knot of Your Life

Maybe you are a survivalist and a scrapper in your life, who has always managed to get by some way, somehow. You've done a great deal of work on your life too - no laziness here - but over time, "the squeaky wheel has gotten the grease"... leaving you with numerous connections, habits, resources, and burdens all tied together with each other.

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Masculine Lessons of "The Facebook Movie"

Ah, it's not easy being a Billionaire, and you can be just as much a man as them...
Why is it that actor Jesse Eisenberg seems to look more like Mark Zuckerberg than Mark Zuckerberg?

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Oblivion - The "Rate-limiting Step" of Life

She may have been your first girlfriend, or she may have been a girl you met a few months ago. You've thought of her from time to time, but life is busy, and you've decided to move on with that, and get busy with it. Occasionally, it bothers you that you think of her at the most inopportune times, or have a dream about her. You'd thought you managed to forget, or come to the very logical conclusion that it's not convenient or healthy to harbor any more thoughts of her. But still, she won't let you go. Or maybe it's only the memory of her that won't.


One of the great things about working for Men's Psychology is that we get to literally "discover" things about behavior on a nearly daily basis - subtleties about women, work, and your worth as a man that will make total sense to you, but that still have always been confusing, or maybe even caused you pain in the past. How can something that seems so insignificant be the cause of so much pain?

Have you ever been in one of these scenarios as a boyfriend or married guy:

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Turning Shame and Rage Into Masculine Power

Take all that embarrassment and shame, all the rage it causes in you, and transform it to masculinity and the powerful rewards within.
You may have heard it before – that “shame and guilt are not the same thing.”
It’s true. Every therapist says so, and might add that guilt is something that is useful and guides you, while shame is something destructive, pervasive and harms your life and your success.
Also all true.
But what good is this knowledge if we don’t have practical applications?

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How to Maximize "Sexual Polarity" With a Woman

If you understand women, you know that personality is everything in a man.This shows you how to dominate in every other way.
It’s not so simple as just being direct or positive, or getting all the details of what you want in a woman down on paper.
It’s getting the science right, and getting the right girl.
There have been many times in my life that I wanted something I didn’t need, and others that I got something I neither wanted nor needed.
If you practice the first, you’ll also unfortunately probably get the second.