Attracting Women

A complete approach to "winning her back" or "getting over her"...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

When you isolate each trait of being a man and master it, you literally have a Superhero's utility belt for living a powerful life.
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The Anatomy of Communication With Women

Freud infamously said it first: "What do women WANT?" And even if the myth goes that this is the one thing he could not figure out, a very robust body of knowledge has been built up over the years in the field of psychoanalysis as to what really makes women tick psychologically. Now that Valentine's Day is over, we want to take a look at the literal anatomy of communication itself - to see what lessons it might offer you in terms of your effectiveness at attracting, dating, and if you so choose - finding a satisfying relationship to a woman who's worth doing so.

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Women who argue with you may be more interested in being right, than happy.

When women BLAME you for something going wrong in your relationship, on your date, or in THEIR lives, it can be tempting to feel bad about that.

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Completely Understand a Woman's Emotions

Have you ever been in one of those predicaments where you wanted to connect with a woman and couldn't, but it wasn't about tripping over your words? It was more about her just not seeming to understand you. She just didn't seem to get it.

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The Four Levels of Leo DiCaprio's Mind

I’m going to assume that by now many of you have seen the mind-bending movie, Inception, with Leo DiCaprio

I was whetting your appetite for Inception in last week's newsletter, and implied that there is something pretty profound in there for you to learn, not just about your dating life, but your own personal growth too.

It’s true.

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Oblivion - The "Rate-limiting Step" of Life

She may have been your first girlfriend, or she may have been a girl you met a few months ago. You've thought of her from time to time, but life is busy, and you've decided to move on with that, and get busy with it. Occasionally, it bothers you that you think of her at the most inopportune times, or have a dream about her. You'd thought you managed to forget, or come to the very logical conclusion that it's not convenient or healthy to harbor any more thoughts of her. But still, she won't let you go. Or maybe it's only the memory of her that won't.

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Dr. Paul,

I know I've met women in the past that made me feel really confident and direct about who I was. I felt comfortable describing myself to them and their cheer leading really amped my mission.

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Many a man finds himself defensive with a woman when the transition is upon us - the change from casual to committed in love, the choice between a better job and a better woman, and that raise and promotion versus not rocking the boat of friendship with one. Here's how to stop defensiveness in its tracks...

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