Attracting Women

If you can learn the skill to recognize the four types of female personality, you will be worlds ahead of other men in conversation, attraction, dating, and if you so choose (and most importantly), marriage...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

Maybe you've noticed - in general, women don't admire men anymore or take as a given that men are to be honored for what they do...
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Oblivion - The "Rate-limiting Step" of Life

She may have been your first girlfriend, or she may have been a girl you met a few months ago. You've thought of her from time to time, but life is busy, and you've decided to move on with that, and get busy with it. Occasionally, it bothers you that you think of her at the most inopportune times, or have a dream about her. You'd thought you managed to forget, or come to the very logical conclusion that it's not convenient or healthy to harbor any more thoughts of her. But still, she won't let you go. Or maybe it's only the memory of her that won't.

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Machiavelli's Four Universal Dating Tips

Machiavelli and his book, The Prince, may be among the most notorious and derided authors and works in history - attacked by the church from day one, and to this day, synonymous with deception and cloak-dagger-politics, espionage and subversive trickery. A closer read may reveal something missing in our understanding:

His original intent was scholarly and meant to benefit the world through what amounts to an elucidation of the male gender instincts (and quite a few of the female gender instincts as well.)

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Reinventing Yourself as a New Man

You've likely had some experiences in the major areas of life that made you just want to start over from scratch - a whole new identity, a whole new life, and a whole new you living in it. These may be areas such as finances, your relationships with women, your health, weight, or appearance, and even in your spirituality.

Some of these currently have societal remedies - for example, bankruptcy for your finances.

Some of the remedies for them are instant - for example, plastic surgery for your appearance.

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Rising to Power: The New Science of "The Zone"

Men are wired to worry about how they fare against other men. How do we stack up, and where do we fit in to the hierarchy? This ancient reflex makes perfect evolutionary sense. Consider that males, because of their larger body size and muscularity, hunted and killed in primitive times.

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The Secret Science Behind Kissing

Nobody would guess that the prime reward for women the world over who indulge in romance novels and Disney fairy tales (all of them) - is also perhaps the very least talked-about subject among men.

It's no surprise. It's "kissing."

Few men would have the fortitude to discuss the most sought-after romantic reward to the minds of women among themselves, but being in the midst of an official, science-based program for men on attraction and dating gave us that very opportunity.

And wow did it pay off for our students.

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Fail-safe Power With Women and Work

Most guys think that "having game" or "just bucking up" will get them all they want in work, women or life. The exact thing you need is mastery of boundaries.
I’ll bring it right out here. It’s the incredible power of your Personal Boundary.
 
We hear people far and wide talk about this immense power in the most vague sense – as in “people need to have boundaries,” “that guy needs to get some boundaries,” or “that woman needs some limits set on her.”
 


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Turning Shame and Rage Into Masculine Power

Take all that embarrassment and shame, all the rage it causes in you, and transform it to masculinity and the powerful rewards within.
You may have heard it before – that “shame and guilt are not the same thing.”
It’s true. Every therapist says so, and might add that guilt is something that is useful and guides you, while shame is something destructive, pervasive and harms your life and your success.
Also all true.
But what good is this knowledge if we don’t have practical applications?

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