Attracting Women

In a sea of personal anecdotes about what's attractive to women, the science facts rise to the top...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

Sometimes it's so subtle how you feel cut downs by women, or at work - your invisible personal boundary is the cure!
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Turning Shame and Rage Into Masculine Power

Take all that embarrassment and shame, all the rage it causes in you, and transform it to masculinity and the powerful rewards within.
You may have heard it before – that “shame and guilt are not the same thing.”
It’s true. Every therapist says so, and might add that guilt is something that is useful and guides you, while shame is something destructive, pervasive and harms your life and your success.
Also all true.
But what good is this knowledge if we don’t have practical applications?

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Many a man finds himself defensive with a woman when the transition is upon us - the change from casual to committed in love, the choice between a better job and a better woman, and that raise and promotion versus not rocking the boat of friendship with one. Here's how to stop defensiveness in its tracks...

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The Gordian Knot of Your Life

Maybe you are a survivalist and a scrapper in your life, who has always managed to get by some way, somehow. You've done a great deal of work on your life too - no laziness here - but over time, "the squeaky wheel has gotten the grease"... leaving you with numerous connections, habits, resources, and burdens all tied together with each other.

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One of the great things about working for Men's Psychology is that we get to literally "discover" things about behavior on a nearly daily basis - subtleties about women, work, and your worth as a man that will make total sense to you, but that still have always been confusing, or maybe even caused you pain in the past. How can something that seems so insignificant be the cause of so much pain?

Have you ever been in one of these scenarios as a boyfriend or married guy:

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The Power of Masculine Words

I'd like to turn your attention this week to something remarkable about words and their power, their confusion, and the importance of action in making things right. You might say this is especially about the complex and sophisticated workings of one of your core powers in the Mature Masculine Power Program. 

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Like Superheroes, Your Father Never Dies

Once upon a time... He was your hero. In good times and bad, our fathers' lessons never go away, even if they someday do...
We’ve just finished a lean, efficient Expedition with yet another class of great guys, and the lessons are many.
By now, you’ve seen our new name and how well it really fits our mission with men: www.menspsychology.com.

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Three Master Moves in the Workplace

Most people have heard of the term, "acting out," when it comes to bad behavior, errors in social politics, and your embarrassing uncle who comes to Thanksgiving dinner once a year, but it is exceptionally powerful for you to define this term in a new way and harness the power of "seeing psychology" in your career moves through the Men's Psychology Mature Masculine Power Program.

 

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