Attracting Women

Tired of people telling you the "glass is half full" in your dating life? Get women in your life NOW.

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

When you isolate each trait of being a man and master it, you literally have a Superhero's utility belt for living a powerful life.

The American holiday, Thanksgiving, has just passed - a time for doing just as it sounds: expressing thanks for what you have in your life, and your relationships. Whether or not you celebrate this holiday, my guess would be that at some time in the past few months you wondered about an aspect of being with a woman for which there is very little advice, instruction or solid, step-by-step actions to take:

What does a woman's capacity to celebrate, and to have gratitude (for YOU) mean about her, and mean about you?

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Machiavelli's Four Universal Dating Tips

Machiavelli and his book, The Prince, may be among the most notorious and derided authors and works in history - attacked by the church from day one, and to this day, synonymous with deception and cloak-dagger-politics, espionage and subversive trickery. A closer read may reveal something missing in our understanding:

His original intent was scholarly and meant to benefit the world through what amounts to an elucidation of the male gender instincts (and quite a few of the female gender instincts as well.)

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What Are You "Worth?"

Fresh off an amazing weekend with dozens of men - to explore the question of what could happen if we really focus down only on the essentials of life - here we are with a whole new technology. It's a set of skills and a new program with a new understanding of how to use those skills, called Men's Psychology | Life Analysis.

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Women No Longer Admire Men

Maybe you have at some point had a breakup. No, for sure at some point you've had a breakup, whether it's a divorce or simply the end of a string of dates. And leading up to that point you've felt a distance from her, a disrespect certainly or even a disdain.

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Think Like a Surfer, Not an Accountant

Many guys struggle with career decisions such as what to choose in a job, when to quit, how to navigate the corporate politics, or how to even stay afloat in this economy in the first place. Very few have a "bird's eye view" on what their likely future path is going to be in career, as most of us at least some of the time, tend to "wing it." It turns out that this might be the whole point - that in discovering and executing on what it is that you were meant to do in life, it's better to have the mentality of a surfer than an accountant.

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Fortitude as a Masculine Skill

The saying goes, "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger." What exactly does this mean? It seems that what doesn't kill us leaves us alive, and that's a miracle in itself. In the end, it's a statement about character growth, and how easy it is to take a worry and expand it. To turn a bad situation good. To see yourself expand as a man when you've been put through the ringer, and who wouldn't want to come out of a challenging situation even stronger than before?

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Fail-safe Power With Women and Work

Most guys think that "having game" or "just bucking up" will get them all they want in work, women or life. The exact thing you need is mastery of boundaries.
I’ll bring it right out here. It’s the incredible power of your Personal Boundary.
 
We hear people far and wide talk about this immense power in the most vague sense – as in “people need to have boundaries,” “that guy needs to get some boundaries,” or “that woman needs some limits set on her.”
 


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