Attracting Women

Anybody and everybody is a dating expert" these days, from a guy who's had "a few good dates" to the guy who looks like Fabio, where's the science?

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

The divide between boy-thinking and mature male thinking is deep but narrow. Get POWER instead...
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Reinventing Yourself as a New Man

You've likely had some experiences in the major areas of life that made you just want to start over from scratch - a whole new identity, a whole new life, and a whole new you living in it. These may be areas such as finances, your relationships with women, your health, weight, or appearance, and even in your spirituality.

Some of these currently have societal remedies - for example, bankruptcy for your finances.

Some of the remedies for them are instant - for example, plastic surgery for your appearance.

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Attracting Women in Costume

They say, clothes make the man, but what about when the clothes are "extreme?" Grab and keep their attention. A new view of attire...Some thoughts about Halloween holidays can turn us toward the effect of your attire - and costumes in particular, on your attractiveness to women.

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Death as a Masculine Power

What does the death of a male mentor mean for your own identity as a man?
The funeral I am driving to, is that of Dr. G. Alec Stewart, a prominent physicist, and Dean of the Honors College where I went to school. In fact, it was his idea to even have an Honors College.
To me, he was THE mentor, benefactor, and advocate.

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"Fitness Indicators" To Pass All Her "Tests"

Men worry about having enough money, being tall enough, fit enough, hairy enough and strong enough "to be her man." What secretly appeals about your physical look may surprise you...
One of the all-time most popular items surrounding women and dating is the notion that they TEST us as men. Given that men are driven by a hunger for technology, we all want to know the latest of the latest not just in terms of cars or computers, but “social technology” too!

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Many a man finds himself defensive with a woman when the transition is upon us - the change from casual to committed in love, the choice between a better job and a better woman, and that raise and promotion versus not rocking the boat of friendship with one. Here's how to stop defensiveness in its tracks...

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The Ultimate Tip for Going Out Alone

If you are like many men, you detest going out alone socially. Turn the situation on its end, and discover that going out alone is what you ought to have done all along to find success!

I’ve never put out the full story on what exactly happens psychologically for a guy deciding on going out alone - going "stag."

It’s about time, because that’s one of the most frequent questions I get asked – is it better to go out alone? Or with a “wingman?”

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Three Master Moves in the Workplace

Most people have heard of the term, "acting out," when it comes to bad behavior, errors in social politics, and your embarrassing uncle who comes to Thanksgiving dinner once a year, but it is exceptionally powerful for you to define this term in a new way and harness the power of "seeing psychology" in your career moves through the Men's Psychology Mature Masculine Power Program.

 

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