Attracting Women

Many a man finds himself defensive with a woman when the transition is upon us - the change from casual to committed in love, the choice between a better job and a better woman, and that raise and promotion versus not rocking the boat of friendship with one. Here's how to stop defensiveness in its tracks...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

Something all people want and need, and yet we need to define this word before we can learn how to get more of it...
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Three Master Moves in the Workplace

Most people have heard of the term, "acting out," when it comes to bad behavior, errors in social politics, and your embarrassing uncle who comes to Thanksgiving dinner once a year, but it is exceptionally powerful for you to define this term in a new way and harness the power of "seeing psychology" in your career moves through the Men's Psychology Mature Masculine Power Program.

 

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"Dating Skills" Can't Touch Courtship Skills

Anybody and everybody is a "dating expert" these days, from a guy who's had "a few good dates" to the guy who looks like Fabio...
There is something major coming your way within a month – something I am going to flat out give to you with my compliments - but I have to get you ready for it. Let’s have some background.

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Sex as a Social Currency

Sex is a social currency. It's pleasurable, and it's emotional, which are the criteria we human beings often use to judge the value of something. Has a woman ever asked, "How much do you value me, really?" Remember your first old junker car that you bought for, perhaps, $500? The car transported you from place to place, and that was more than enough to make you value the car highly. You likely told friends that it was worth much more than $500 to you.

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Masculine Intelligence™ in Breaking Up

There's never a good time for it, never a right time or place, and it usually doesn't feel right at all. For some men, breaking up seems to be easy to do, but if we get honest with ourselves, those guys are few and far between. Sometimes those men don't realize that the relationship really didn't offer either person much, and they were only pretending. For other guys, it was easy to break up because they, themselves, didn't invest all that much, or anything into the relationship.

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Maybe the shortest article I've ever written, or more of an invitation than an article.

Our teleseminars of late have seen men trying to learn by reading and studying. Sometimes by getting into the diagrams we have for explaining attraction women have for us. And still others manage to get out and DO what it takes to finally get the right woman into your lives.

Well tonight I had a brainstorm:

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The Four Levels of Leo DiCaprio's Mind

I’m going to assume that by now many of you have seen the mind-bending movie, Inception, with Leo DiCaprio

I was whetting your appetite for Inception in last week's newsletter, and implied that there is something pretty profound in there for you to learn, not just about your dating life, but your own personal growth too.

It’s true.

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Like Superheroes, Your Father Never Dies

Once upon a time... He was your hero. In good times and bad, our fathers' lessons never go away, even if they someday do...
We’ve just finished a lean, efficient Expedition with yet another class of great guys, and the lessons are many.
By now, you’ve seen our new name and how well it really fits our mission with men: www.menspsychology.com.

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