Attracting Women

After horrific events in the world this week, and with the holidays approaching, it's time for some PROOF of the power of love...

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

In a world flooded with blogs, gossip, shame and hate, the power of words for men that heal...
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Men: Before Getting Married, Read This Book

Watching a favorite TV show (HBO's Entourage), I realized how clueless men have become toward the ugly realities of divorce in America. Nobody gets married expecting to fail, and cheerful optimism is one of the endearing qualities of newly-married couples. But you don't have to be a cynic to see that most men are simply not prepared, mentally and emotionally, to face the cruelty that a woman can unleash on a man when a marriage crashes and burns.


The American holiday, Thanksgiving, has just passed - a time for doing just as it sounds: expressing thanks for what you have in your life, and your relationships. Whether or not you celebrate this holiday, my guess would be that at some time in the past few months you wondered about an aspect of being with a woman for which there is very little advice, instruction or solid, step-by-step actions to take:

What does a woman's capacity to celebrate, and to have gratitude (for YOU) mean about her, and mean about you?

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The Social Injection Exercise

The advantages of the exercise that you are about to learn, for free, will be:

1. You will meet more women, or have a richer connection to the one you're with.

2. You will get a new career direction, resources, and guidance, or inject your current career with all new ideas, teammates, and above all, ACTION.

3. You will know yourself better than you have in years.

Sound worth it? Let's dig in...

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Stun Women With This Universal Personality Skill

If you can learn the skill to recognize the four types of female personality, you will be worlds ahead of other men in attraction and dating.
Maybe if you have a woman in your life right now you are getting dragged out to a particular new movie.
But it’s okay. This movie might offer you far more new insights into women and life than it offers your girlfriend or wife!

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Turning Shame and Rage Into Masculine Power

Take all that embarrassment and shame, all the rage it causes in you, and transform it to masculinity and the powerful rewards within.
You may have heard it before – that “shame and guilt are not the same thing.”
It’s true. Every therapist says so, and might add that guilt is something that is useful and guides you, while shame is something destructive, pervasive and harms your life and your success.
Also all true.
But what good is this knowledge if we don’t have practical applications?

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Sex as a Social Currency

Sex is a social currency. It's pleasurable, and it's emotional, which are the criteria we human beings often use to judge the value of something. Has a woman ever asked, "How much do you value me, really?" Remember your first old junker car that you bought for, perhaps, $500? The car transported you from place to place, and that was more than enough to make you value the car highly. You likely told friends that it was worth much more than $500 to you.

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Being Respectful Does Not Mean Tolerating Bullies

I have something to say to you and you likely have felt it before but not had the words for it.

It's time to go back to basics and talk about something we almost never discuss on their lonesome - Personal Boundaries.

Let's begin with a recent news story - one of the many depicting men as "bad," "derelict," "shunning responsibility," "commitment phobic," or any of a number of other words or phrases that amount to none other than bullying.