Attracting Women

It's said that being alone does not have to be lonely. This is even more true for men. In fact, being alone and building your life is one of the greatest experiences a man can have.

 Winning at Work

Let me start by saying that I love amateurs. I love being an amateur at ninety-eight of the top one-hundred or so most enjoyable things in life. I wonder where all the amateurs of the world have gone.

 Being of Worth

You always knew there ought to be a name for it - the state of mind suffered only by men, related to women and or work... It robs their passion for...
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"Dating Skills" Can't Touch Courtship Skills

Anybody and everybody is a "dating expert" these days, from a guy who's had "a few good dates" to the guy who looks like Fabio...
There is something major coming your way within a month – something I am going to flat out give to you with my compliments - but I have to get you ready for it. Let’s have some background.

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The Four Types of Humor in Women

Tension is not always a bad thing. At least when you recognize that it is the same as arousal, and arousal is a neutral thing simply meaning that you have someone's attention.

On one end of the spectrum, allowing it to build too high becomes anxiety-ridden and uncomfortable, and letting it be too loose - too slow - causes it to fall flat and not be very interesting.

The perfect complement to a gift for creating tension with a woman, is the gift of humor - and the knowledge that there are exactly four main types of it.

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The Secret Psychology of James Bond

This is exactly how to BE Bond. Some may say that two markers of his essence are that he is as equally good with women as he is with a gun. But villains may be skilled with both women and guns.

There's more to Bond than just that. He has a duty, ethics and incredible responsibility, but can be anything but conventional in carrying them out. This is not to say that he just bends the rules or has flexible ethics, but instead to say that he is fully capable of running on impulse, using his gut, and still never losing sight of his, and his country's noble end goals.

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Masculine Intelligence™ in Breaking Up

There's never a good time for it, never a right time or place, and it usually doesn't feel right at all. For some men, breaking up seems to be easy to do, but if we get honest with ourselves, those guys are few and far between. Sometimes those men don't realize that the relationship really didn't offer either person much, and they were only pretending. For other guys, it was easy to break up because they, themselves, didn't invest all that much, or anything into the relationship.

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Men Who Limit Themselves

We've never commented on this before, because maybe it's just so obvious to many - that women don't really care about your looks, height, hairline, weight and so much else that you are critical of yourself about.

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He wasn't your usual elite Hollywood actor. When in between filming “Pirates of the Caribbean,” a commercial here and there, entertaining some jet-setters from Europe, or working on the side as a high-end bartender my old friend would "cave up" in his rented Beverly Hills carriage house to silently work on building old-fashioned record turntables from scratch, “just because."

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The Secrets, the Skills, and the Heroic Save

Back from New York and another successful bootcamp for men on attraction and dating, and there is so much to do. For one, there is another bootcamp in Chicago to immediately get charged up for, and for another, there are no less than two new awesome training programs for men, and a remarkable new intellectually advanced On Demand Plus+ Membership we've just launched (hint: next session, TODAY at 5pm CST).

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