Women You Desire, Women You Like, and Women You Love
Dr. Paul, I know I've met women in the past that made me feel really confident and direct about who I was. I felt comfortable describing myself to them and their cheer leading really amped my mission. I've also met...
What the Hell is Commitment?
Dr. Paul, I'm 55yo Male and my male and female friends are over 40 and have been through Marriage/Children/Divorce. They are wondering Is traditional commitment still necessary? Why get married again? I think commitment to...
Q & A: We Both Want to Be Right
Dr. Paul, So I am married and I find that we end up bickering at each other a lot or getting into mini fights because we both feel we have to be right. We will get in an argument over stupid stuff that doesnt really matter, but I...
I Like the 19 Year Old Admin...
Dr. Paul, At work we have a secretary, 19 years old who is quite intelligent (finished her high school in the top percentile in the state) She's taken two years off to save for uni and our work place is a remote camp with...
My Cheating Wife Blames Me?
Dr. Paul, hello, This is my first post and I would like the give a whole hearted thank you for providing the tools that saved my emotional sanity. Mind OS has been instrumental in my personal development. Here is my story...
Nikola Tesla and the Hades Instinct
Dr. Paul,Wow. See this link on Nikola Tesla: The mind is sharper and keener in seclusion and uninterrupted solitude. No big laboratory is needed in which to think. Originality thrives in seclusion free of outside influences...
I Can't Believe It Really Works!
Dr. Paul,I am going through the Omega Male Program and had a difficult time accepting truth in the power of a man being "mysterious". I decided to try out "Negs" and expected epic failure. I was so wrong!...
Mysteriousness Really Works!
Hi Dr. Paul, I am going through the Omega Male Program and had a difficult time accepting truth in the power of a man being "mysterious". I decided to try out "Negs" and expected epic failure. I was so wrong...
A Man's Legacy is Like a Woman's Children
Hey Dr. Paul...it's been awhile...I've calmed down a bit - going to hit 65 soon... I've read and subscribed to your works sometime ago...I have to say you have been a positive influence on my life...you helped me...
I'm Depressed and Can't Get Out
I just had a little realization. I remember when I had enough of life. I was tired of being depressed, angry and being no good at girls because my inner game sucked. One day I got fed up and got angry and saud "F it"...
To Be Right? Or to Be Kind?
Dr Paul, Even though we know that kindness is a virtue and the need to be right is one we are born with we still pretty often find our self in a situation where we have to choose one and sacrifice the other. In my case (and many...
A Woman Who "Can't Live Without Him"...
Dr Paul, a woman told me that she can’t imagine her life without me even if that means sharing me. I’m pretty confused. When I date other women I realize that I don’t necessarily like them more overall, but it...
Totally Forgot to Tell You About Sunday...
Dr. Paul,Wow. This series of teleseminars on "Life Analysis" sound great! I might be right in saying these topics are from the new curriculum page .. Tons to learn from a single page. Love it !...
Wife and Female Therapist Team Up to Bully Man
Dr. Paul,I wish I found this stuff back in 2005 after I graduated college and needed it the most. You see, I had almost no success with women until I studied a dating e-book and eventually worked up the confidence to meet a nice...
Trembing Hands When in Confrontation
Hi Dr. Paul, If one has a brief confrontation with another person and they both share their views or disagreements. If one then gets the "hand shakes or tremors" soon afterward. Especially if one does not like...
Argentinian Girl On the Rocks
Dr. Paul, Hi everyone! I´m a long time member and it´s my first post. I´m going to start putting out things after a long period of just absorving. I´m from Brazil and I´m 34 years old. Apologies for...
The Girlfriend Had "Threesome"
Dr. Paul, I wrote to you a while back about how I found my girlfriend's phone which had a lot of information about her past that I did not like Well, at the time I reframed it as much as I could at the time and I got over it...
Suffering Over a Woman Who Doesn't Respond
Hi Dr Paul, My question relates to suffering over a woman. Late last year a woman knocked me back after us sleeping together. Things had been simmering for quite some time meaning I'd built up an emotional connection to her,...
Men Who Do House Chores Have Less Sex
Dr. Paul, Interesting short article with a cool graph showing the precise amount of housework a guy should do  :D . Supports what we know from your teachings.   http://blog.sfgate.com/science/2013/01/30/study-husbands-...
Keira Knightley's Indian Twin
Dr Paul, A few weeks ago after having Omega Male and MindOS running on a loop in my car for 2 months, I went to a wedding and while I was there I met a pretty cute girl. She was like Keira Knightley's Indian twin. Anyway......
When Girlfriend Moves Away
Hey Dr. Paul I have an interesting issue where I am lacking wisdom. I am dating a girl who is from the country of Serbia. We have really hit it off and our relationship has been great. She has been attending my college since fall...
Not Sure of My Mission in Life
Hello Dr Paul. I had a strong "AHA" moment just after reading the first chapter of your 10 laws e book. I thought my life is going well but after reading the first chapter about having a mission in life and success with...
Lost the Passion for Work and Women
Dr Paul, I had a strong "AHA" moment just after reading the first chapter of your 10 laws e book. I thought my life is going well but after reading the first chapter about having a mission in life and success with women...
"Initiation" Mentoring
Hi Dr Paul,I was talking to one of my university friends and former housemate's boyfriend today. Good guy. He is one of these so-called naturals. He told me a story which made me straight away think "initiation!"...
To Dance or Not to Dance?
Hi Dr Paul,Hello Dr. Paul. First of all thank you so much for your amazing programs and all the great things you do for the fellow men. I ran into a situation yesterday where I lost competition with another guy, who’s...
I Ran Into a Female Parking Bully
Hi Dr Paul,Last night I had a bizarre encounter with what seemed to be a lesbian or transgender (female) as I was parking my car. I got out first, which I then proceeded to see if I could park closer to fit my car in the metered...
What to Do About a Mother Who's Negative All the Time
Hi Dr Paul,In the last years my mother has become increasingly critical of basically everything. My decisions of which I let her (and my father) know, are nearly constantly considered “problems”, never chances....
How Do I Get "James Bond Cool?"
Dr Paul,So i noticed there hasn't been a new subject in the mail bag since September, unless I'm blind like Mr. Magoo and I looked in the wrong area, hahahahaha. I often have times where I am conversing with women and I...
Have I Screwed It Up With a "Warrior Woman?"
Hi Dr Paul,I'm seeing this warrior woman who lives far enough away where we can only see each other once a week. We get along great and as far as I can see are very compatible. The first two weeks she was super into me and...
I Accidentally Touched a Woman
Dr Paul,Being pretty tired I accidentally touched the girl I always wanted on the shoulder without actually wanting to go the phase 2 of sexual attraction.I over obsessed about this for days and maybe even gave off a vibe that...
What is My "Mission in Life?"
Hi Dr Paul,I feel very lost discovering my mission right now. I have been in graduate school for five years and finally getting out now and although I feel that it has been a great experience, but when you don't count the...
Can I Be a Success If I'm an Idealist?
Hi Dr Paul,Thinking of the ideal life can sometimes raise some anxiety and fears, perhaps it is a fear of the responsibility I would have to take on to maintain that life. I remember a scene in 300 where an enemy of King Leonidas...
How Women's Attraction Changes Over Time
Hi Dr Paul, I suspect that men get more attractive as they age - this is something I realized over 5 years ago. It just gets easier and easier to attract women, because what makes men attractive, especially mystery and character...
Tricky, Tricky Question
Hi Dr Paul,This situation is crazy so I thought it might be an interesting story. I'll try and be brief but this has been developing over many years. I, whilst studying my masters in Uni had an experience, I walked into a...
What Do I Have to Do With The Way Others Treat Me?
Hi Dr Paul,This is my first post in the Mailbag and I want to make it a good one! Let's get to it. I'd say 80% of my problems in life stem from a fear of what others are thinking of me. Intellectually I can say that...
Is It Okay to Not Forgive a Girlfriend's Past
Hi Dr Paul,My girlfriend of 10 months gave me her old cellphone to sell on ebay. I went to inspect it for proper functioning and in the mean time I accidentally walked into Bluebeard's closet and opened up pandora's box....
How Do I Use More Masculinity to Get More Women?
Hi Dr Paul and forum members,I am not sure if my question makes much sense but I wonder if there are certain things I can do everyday to help cultivate masculine traits. As Dr. Paul says, masculinity resides in every man's...
I Fear Public Speeches
Hi Dr Paul,I am very excited to have an opportunity to work. After spending most of the past year looking for work and going back to school I have landed a temp job that will be evaluated at the end of next week. I tend to use...
Why Do I Attract Women I DON'T Want and Fail With Women I DO Want?
Hi Dr Paul,why do I lately attract women I DON'T want, and irritate women (or get rejected by women) I DO want?? It's got to be one thing I am doing different with the women I like than the one's I don't. For...
I Lost All My Friends
Hi Dr Paul, Over the past few months I have removed some people from my life. Most of them were women and a few guys. Some of them were close friends but I felt that I had to remove them from my life because I felt a little '...
My Arrogant Family Members
Hi Dr Paul, My relatives are visiting. I've seen them at regular intervals since they were young and are now young men. As such, its been interesting to see their childhood and how the various parenting figures have...
Leave a Job on a High Note
Hi Dr Paul, So I am thinking it's always a good idea to quit a job on a high note, and never burn your bridges. It's good advice in all aspects of life but you never know who you will come across in business. I was...
Being a Man of Action
Hi Dr Paul, I have noticed recently that many men I know are getting a little thought heavy. To quantify this though, some of the men are theorizing and literally bludgeoning a conversation to death through analysis. Yes of...
What Do I Do About My Party Invite With a Dude Who Stole My Girl?
Hi Dr Paul, Looking for some opinions here. I have been invited to a party to celebrate a birthday in a few weeks with some friends...only one small problem. But first the back story... Several months ago at a party I co-...
A Woman Gets Suddenly Horny
Hi Dr Paul, This long week-end I went to a huge dance event. My favorite dancer was there. We dance together in those events since 3-4 years andf we have a really good connection. We don't live in the same city so I see her...
30 Approaches in 30 Days
Hi Dr Paul, for a fun challenge I swore an oath of 30 days of daytime approaches through June, going to log results here. Day 1: A couple of weeks back I saw a girl with a very beautiful face and developed a bit of a crush! At...
My Girlfriend Meeting With Her Ex-fiancee
Hi Dr Paul,My fiance has made contact with an old boy friend ( I saw a txt from him regarding them meeting without my knowledge) --in the past she ahs always let me know about their contact.He is now married. Should I confront...
Frustrated With My Stylist
For the record, I do not have a good track record for enjoying getting my haircut. Oftentimes, the hairstylist who cuts my hair seems judgemental of me and negative. This is pretty much across the board wherever I go, in all...
She Says I'm Not Serious
I've been seeing a girl for the past couple months, and things were going well until recently when she started avoiding me. When I confronted her about it, she said she "didn't think I was serious about her",...
What Do I Do When a Woman Ruins My Game With Another Woman?
Hey Dr. Paul was wondering if I applied my shield correctly when using my boundary against a harmful outside force. A girl i was talking to a while back ends up being at the same party as me. I ended things with her because I saw...
Tired of Advice Givers
Hi Dr Paul,Well for one its not that I don't appreciate feedback from other people, because for personal growth I like to hear what I don't want to hear (In terms of challenges at least) and I do apply what is useful and...
How Far Is Too Far When Letting a Girlfriend Flirt?
When in a committed relationship (and all is well within it), how far is too far when practicing upkeeping masculinity with other females? ie if a guy is accused of flirting with one of his girlfriend's friends (or any other...
Resentment Over a Betrayal
Hi Dr Paul, My last serious girlfriend cheated on me. When I found out about the affair I ended the relationship but attempted to maintain friendship. After several months went by I became haunted and embittered over the betrayal...
I Can't Find a "Magician Personality" Woman Who Doesn't Smoke!
Urgent Question: Hey Dr. Paul!  I'm Totally Loving, & Having a Blast With Your Phenomenal Teachings!!! Here's a question that's bothered me for years about people in general, and now in the last year of...
What Do I Do About Lying to Myself?
Hi Dr Paul Hope all is well in the US.. I have a question, well a few questions, that would be great to have your opinion on..... Since studying your material, there's been something that ive had trouble getting my head...
What Do I DO About My Girlfriend?
Dr. Paul, I am pushing 6 months in my current relationship with my Girlfriend. Something has been bothering me lately about resources and altruism. She makes more money than I do (she's 29 and I am 22 years of age) namely...
How Do I "Fix" My Girlfriend?
Hi Dr Paul, I've recently posted here about the "fixing issues" I've had with my gf, and am now trying to maintain my personal boundaries better, try to not tolerate bad behavior, etc. Lately, I have been...
Women Who Steal Your Money
Hi Dr Paul, Found this video on Facebook. Some pretty crazy stuff here, but then again I don't blame her. These guys need to stop leading with their wallets. http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/date-food-women-seek-fancy-...
To Be "Goodie-goodie," or "Cutthroat?"
Hi Dr Paul, Just because they ( other people * ) want something different from life than you does not mean you need to change the way you live yours to please them. Smile. Shake their hand and be on your way. Life is too short to...
What Does a Man Do When Stuck in Depression?
Dr Paul, there was a very sad death, at his own hands, last weekend of a high profile UK soccer player and coach of the Wales national team. This article discusses the reality that suicide is the number one cause of death in men...
Should I Feel Guilty When Women Make All These "Requirements" on Me?
I would be very happy to hear some thoughts about the following. I have been in a relationship for a while now, and it is my first "real" longterm relationship. My woman is a very intelligent, caring, kind, open and...
How Do I Stop a Stalker and Get the One I Want?
Hi Dr Paul, Woman 1 is stunningly attractive. Woman 2 is not nearly as attractive. I know having Woman 2 see me at the event with Woman 1 will probably crush her. She does need to let go and move on, it's been 6 months since...
When Does a Guy Tell Her "I Love You??"
When two mature adults are in a new, committed relationship, at what stage is it appropriate to tell your girlfriend for the first time you love her? Where should you be on the steps of courtship outlined in the Omega program? At...
He Wasn't "Serious" About Her...
I've been seeing a girl for the past couple months, and things were going well until recently when she started avoiding me. When I confronted her about it, she said she "didn't think I was serious about her",...
My No-Good, Cheating Wife
This is my first post and I would like the give a whole hearted thank you for providing the tools that saved my emotional sanity. Mind OS has been instrumental in my personal development. Here is my story and my dilemma. I have...
The "Science of Flirting"
I've never really understood what flirting is even when I've done it in the past. So I want to figure out what the scientific definition of flirting. There are not really any clear definitions (at least to me) on the web...
Women Who Make Men Jealous
Hi Dr Paul, When a woman tries to make a man jealous is it to test him, motivate him to chase her or just plain immaturity? I have read other posts about the two types of jealousy (good-territorial and bad-losing mommy) but am...
What Do I Do With a Female Coworker I Now Live With?
Hi Dr Paul, I have a 28-y-o female co-worker who just started renting a room from me in my house. We are platonic friends only and have many friends in common. She shares a lot of personal information with me about her dating...
How to Deal With "Sperm Wars"
Hi Dr Paul, Last night I went to a swing dance night where I've met an interested magician woman. She came to ask me dance 2-3 times. The last time, she started to talk with a tall guy passing by while we were dancing. She...
Women Who Flake
QUESTION: I get in situations like this all the time lol, i seem to get them keen at first and get numbers etc no problem but when it comes to closing the deals, i struggle!! Think i just need to be more aware of the signs woman...