How Do I "Fix" My Girlfriend?

First off, there needs to be BALANCE in how you think about this. No one technique is going to be the "magic key" to this, but as usual, boundaries are always a good idea, and boundaries help us FILTER what is important from what is not, and BUDGET how we spend our time and resources.

For one, "there's always tomorrow." Don't get all wrapped up in worry about one weekend or one interaction.

Yes, sex slows for a time that far into a relationship, but it ebbs and flows. Some authors have even talked about it in terms of being like "seasons" and you are in "winter," sexually.

A balance of healthy interest in new friends, including female friends (platonically) may help spur her rekindled interest.

Secondly, remembering that all three phases of courtship we cover in the Omega matter at all times - and so even though you are working on friendship and commitment, the sexual attraction steps still apply. Notice these are PSYCHOLOGICAL, not just "physical moves."

The Omega is at:

http://www.menspsychology.com/courses/miwomen

And so even if you aren't doing the sex act itself for a time - being in the "sexual winter" of the relationship - this is not to say you couldn't practice steps one two and three on her as far as sexual CHEMISTRY - a very different thing from the sex ACT itself. Don't get caught up in the sexual frequency. People get "out of phase" for a time, and then back in phase after working on steps one-three.

Finally, remember boundaries and not getting obsessive or jealous, territorial or entitled too much about the sex. In the long haul yes, the man in a relationship is getting short shrift if he is doing all kinds of husbandly duties so to speak, but there is no sex at all. Why is he there? Just to serve? And if it gets too WIN/LOSE in this way, it's as if the man is psychologically "being used."

So you are right - use the time to amp up masculinity in other areas of your life - career, friendships, including with other women - and maybe winter will pass quickly, aided by your elevated masculinity coming from other sources. We cover this in the Mature Masculine Power Program:

http://www.menspsychology.com/courses/miman

After all, in the Omega, we conclude that ultimately what attracts a woman to a man is his level of expressed and deeply ingrained masculinity, and what attracts him to her is her level of femininity. It is a very valid thing to wonder if a woman's weight affects her level of feeling sexy and being in the mood, and because of boundaries we have to respect that women are different than we are, and have an internal psychological life all their own. You don't control her weight or her own feelings of sexual confidence. You can only coach, offer, inspire and wait - and if you have to wait too long, you may be getting taken for a ride.

The Omega is at:

http://www.menspsychology.com/courses/miwomen

And is also available as a more affordable Video Streaming Program:

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But with boundaries, you decide on how long is too long, when to get out and ultimately steer your life according to your preferences. The new boundary program for men is at:

http://www.menspsychology.com/courses/masculine-intelligence-in-personal-boundaries