Tricky, Tricky Question

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Hi Dr Paul,This situation is crazy so I thought it might be an interesting story. I'll try and be brief but this has been developing over many years. I, whilst studying my masters in Uni had an experience, I walked into a lecture and was with some students that I hadn't met before, one of them was giving her presentation and I was in complete "uni" mode when she turned and looked at me and I just went HOLY f*** she's just beautiful. And, she doesn't break the stare and goes and sits down and we keep looking at each other, I mean I had to slap myself to get on with what I was doing. I felt flushed I was kind of sweating and it had a big emotional charge and I couldn't get it out of my mind. Anyway, I befriended her friend to find out more about her and asked her if "love at first sight" was single and she had a boyfriend, hmmm. In a strange twist of fate I started hanging out more with the friend, who was also very good looking, we end up dating and I tried to put it out of my head, which, I did. Fast forward a year and "love at first sight" keeps inviting us out for a foursome dinner date and I keep making excuses to not go and generally keeping away as the situation is f 'ed up. I end up moving in with love at first sights mate (!) and she comes around to visit - I'm like, strictly we are just friends now, jolly, jolly, everything normal, and BANG she turns around whilst standing next to my girlfriend and gives me that look again, man I was like squirming in agony, flushed ete etc. Anyway, she splits with her boyfriend and I ended up splitting with mine. My ex is probably palling up with her just in case as she is obviously aware that there is something between us and she's an evil b****. What do you do about that eh ?

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Answer:
The unanswered question is - are you dating? And if not, why not???

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