Ever Wondered About the History of Your Coaches?

ATnoir : Growing up, I faced a number of challenges. My father passed away before I was born and I come from a religious immigrant family, who weren't the most psychologically healthy people. I'd always knew I'd be different from them. Whilst I was outwardly confident, I never felt the same inwardly. I spent my entire teen years without even kissing a girl and was very unhappy with many things. I found out about 'PUAs' and 'gurus' on the internet whilst at university and began to experience some successes, but still didn't feel happy. Furthermore, I started to take a very dim view of the women I was meeting and grew some unhealthy attitudes. Whilst I was aware of Dr Paul, I was initially very dismissive of his teachings. I was looking for a magic bullet to success, a line, a hypnosis trick etc that would turn it all around. At my then immature state of mind, I didn't appreciate the elegance of MindOS and was more attracted to the flashy slogans of gurus.

A couple of years later, during a very difficult patch in my life I re-read a Dr Paul email, which made perfect sense to me and after a hugely difficult break up, I really began to immerse myself in MindOS and Mature Masculine Power. I did a lot of work on myself, answering some tough questions and some months later I attended the Omega Male Seminar. I literally felt reborn and so many people couldn't stop commenting on how 'something' had changed. I also attended a Superconference, which helped to re-affirm some teachings and helped me to develop others. Whilst I still face challenges all the time, I feel happier than I have been

I decided to become a coach as I have been on the 'other side'. While there are many coaches who have experienced a 'dateless' life, I feel as though I am uniquely placed to help most men as I have faced a lot of issues, including a cultural divide with a family, narcissism in self and family, fatherlessness and weight issues but to name a few. The more men who overcome these challenges, the better. The world can only benefit from having Mature Masculine Men, who are able to harness their power and put it to good use.


Zoltan: About 6 years ago I was in a position where I realized my life with women sucked (having just been rejected by yet another woman), and my career was not really going anywhere.

I decided for myself that things had to change. So I started looking on the internet, and initially stumbled on David D's stuff, which is how I found out about Dr Paul. Until learning Dr Paul's MindOS, I had made progress, but my success had been largely haphazard. Once I started to understand MindOS, I could see the things that were holding me back and started to make real progress. After watching MindOS, I realized why I had so much difficulty approaching women, and had my first major lesson with "doing courage."

Around the same time, my career started to progress as well. I got a promotion, and life was good... that was until due to things changing that things went backwards for a while. I got into a spiral of both the skill with women, and my career progress seemed to be going backwards. They seemed to feed each other, and I seemed to be stuck in rut. That was the point where I decided to attend the Omega Male seminar.

I learned a lot of lessons there, that really cemented some things I had overlooked in MindOS (this was 2 whole years after I thought I had understood MindOS), as well as finally getting why a lot of the relationships, or dates with women didn't work out.

My biggest interest is in the area of how success in dating and relationships overlap with success in other areas of your life. I am still amazed today at how the lessons I have learned from approaching women, or from online dating, can be applied in areas such as business and career. To me it is all about becoming a better man.

After attending the Omega Male seminar, and being involved actively in this forum since its inception, Dr Paul approached me about being a moderator due to my understanding of the material.

I am still learning lessons from Dr Paul's materials today, and find it good to refer back to them after going and living life a little. There is always something more to learn.


Josh: I’ve known this one for person my entire life, about 11 years ago he suddenly got representation with four prominent modeling agencies located in New York City, Chicago, and Orlando. Talent agents were now working for him. We saw him on CBS’s The Late Show with David Letterman, to commercial print modeling in periodicals including The Chicago Tribune, and we learned he was working on the set of NBC’s ER. He learned how the talent and entertainment industries operate.

In late 2004, this model met Dr. Paul at a popular restaurant in Chicago. Okay, I’m sure by now you’ve figured out I may have been misleading you a little, and I’m actually writing about Dr. Paul and myself. I've been tooting my own horn but only to let you know that I'm giving you the best from my best. At any rate, I kept bumping into Dr. Paul, I learned of his work, and incorporated his MindOS system into my daily life. Dr. Paul had suggested that some kind of fashion input would be a valuable addition to what he could offer others. He and I both agreed it was a good fit and began to work together. The best part of it was that I already knew the “how to” part of image and fashion, after all I had my own fashion company for a while. Yet, I now was able to understand “the why,” and linking the two together has become one of the most valuable tools that I can offer to anyone’s daily repertoire. In 2006 or so we launched the 7th Sense of Fashion, and in 2009 I finished the 2nd Edition of the 7th Sense of Fashion, with an extra 55 pages of content.

The things I have learned from absorbing Dr. Paul’s materials have been invaluable not just for my personal life and evaluating past failures and successes; the materials have also enriched my life beyond this area. My diplomatic skills among others have also increased dramatically, allowing me to team up with potential “enemies” to create win/win situations. Can you image how much better your professional life would be if you could be the ultimate team player and leader where appropriate? The principles of MindOS combined with KWML can serve to make you THE ultimate asset to those in your life. Although many of our offerings are packaged in a way to enhance your personal lives this is just a byproduct of the essence of what we offer. What we really provide is a system of personal evolution and development that provides you with a more fulfilling and rewarding life. This is the main reason I’m here.

My talents are honed to working with individuals who really want to have their own unique yet classic style, as well as counseling modeling industry professionals. Hey, I’ve heard all the questions about fashion and clothing, starting with what to wear for a photo shoot, what to wear for a night on the town, what to wear for a date, up to with what to wear for a TV interview. Easier questions range from, “Can I wear these shoes with jeans, or should I wear a different pair of jeans with these shoes?” “What cut of jeans is best, and the length…, for those shoes?” The more difficult questions often include, “Well, why is this color better with my skin and for this situation, and well, WHAT DOES IT REALLY say about me?” “How do I build my own sense style, where I not only fit in with my group, but stand out at the same time?”

In closing, I look forward contributing to everything that is added here. My promise to you is that you will only receive the best feedback, based on Dr. Paul’s teachings combined with my professional experience and knowledge.

Nicketas:
Nicketas is the author of 4 Self-Help books, A Personal Development Blog, a Licensed Coach for Dr. Paul, Freelance Consultant, and an Entrepreneur, with a passion for art, design, aesthetics, and helping people.

His consulting credits include 2 Dr. Paul seminars and 2 Atlanta, GA (USA) based startup companies (A Game Development Firm, and A Web-Based Software Application Company).

Having shown remarkable intuition at an early age, Nicketas has been the go-to advice guy amongst his circle of friends for years. He has been closely studying and following Dr. Paul's Materials since 2005, and coaching since 2007.

He is 27 years old.

On Women:

Nicketas has had a fascination with women since age 3 when he decided he wanted a girlfriend. Since then, year after year, he has had the experience of being a "half-natural" with women. Some years he was surrounded by women, other years it was "let's just be friends", sometimes the unwitting and naive target of feminine seduction, and other years still he would find himself pining for that special girl, his experiences and general ease of communication with women taught him much but he didn't seem to be able to QUITE get THE girlfriend he'd always wanted.

After being immensely heartbroken and blindsided by an unforeseen breakup with a girl he'd been friends with for years, and even more perplexed and frustrated by the mixed results he was getting with women in general, he found his way into the men's community online.

Though he learned much from a couple of the more popular dating coaches available, he found himself still frustrated by the challenge of mixing THEIR advice with HIS natural personality.

Enter Dr. Paul.

Since Nicketas has had an interest in psychology for much of his life, Dr. Paul's "Deep Inner Game" came across as something of a Godsend, and finally Nicketas started to really be able to make sense of his dating results.

Since then, and the advent of Both Omega Male Programs, dating and understanding women very deeply has become second nature.

Nicketas (like all coaches here on this forum) is heavily entrenched in Dr. Paul's Material, and he specializes in helping men with the concepts of Emotional Mastery, Energy & Nonverbal Attraction, Mission Discovery, Romance & Understanding Women.


ManOnAMission: Like a lot of guys here, growing up I was your typical nerd. I had a lot of "book-smarts" but much less in the way of "street-smarts". I used my natural curiosity and intelligence to get a PhD in the natural sciences, and this is related to my current career path. However, I was not happy when it came to my social and dating life. I always ended up being the 'friend'. More to the point, I have known all too well the sense of powerlessness many guys feel when it comes to women, such as seeing a girl you'd really want to approach but don't have any idea how. That is a sad feeling that all the money in the world and career success can't solve.

I came to Dr Paul's forum in November 2007. At the time, my career was going quite well. But I still wasn't really over the break-up with my girlfriend, and I had no idea how to meet more women. I was determined to get this area of my life handled. Thanks to the Dr Paul's Omega program, direction from other guys in the forum, the weekly conversations with Dr Paul himself via the teleseminars, personal mentors I have been blessed to come across, taking up new hobbies such as rock-climbing, and yes, lots and lots of practice on my own approaching and meeting women in coffee shops and grocery stores, I have come a long way. I was asked to become a moderator in the forum June 2008.

If I could give guys some advice here, I'd say this:

1) Success with women is as much as how you approach the rest of your life as it is about anything else. There is hardly anything more repelling to a woman than a guy whose life revolves around meeting girls. So I would tell guys starting off to step it up in other areas of their lives--pursue meaningful hobbies that make you grow, and so on.


2) You get good with meeting women in your body and your right brain too. You want to strive for the confident grounded energy when you approach her. We have something called mirror neurons, and women have many more than we do. What that means is that if you are confident and turned on, she will likely feel good and be turned on too. If you are nervous, she will feel nervous too.

Welcome to the forum!


Archangel: The dating game is an interesting thing. It is something that seems so disgustingly difficult, complicated, dangerous and impossible to fathom. Women are so out there so unobtainable so difficult and so damn awkward. Well at least that’s how it seemed.

I started university as someone with very little skills at talking to women, but amazing video gaming skills! University was going to be my time to try to do better with women. But it still did not happen, all those women around all those open opportunities and nothing. At the end of my first year I was down and out. The start of my second year was mostly the same story. Until one day I came across the Double your Dating programs when everything changed. All the sudden women were actually finding me attractive. It all seemed so great. However.

A few years pass and I am in a relationship but something still isn’t quite right. So when I found out that the Dr Paul road show was coming to my town I decided to jump at the chance to learn more about socialising and psychology. It was well worth it as I learned more about myself than ever before. I learned to respect myself, to trust in my own ability to reason, trust in my own opinions. To be my own man. To be me.
I now enjoy my daily interactions with women being able to turn on the attraction when I need to and since that time I have grown a huge passion for the sciences, for reasoning and for understanding. I jumped at chances to see some of the world’s top evolutionary theorists speak.

I now believe that the mating game has to be one of the most integral parts to our psychology as humans. The mating game appears to have been one of the main evolutionary mechanisms which shaped the human brain into being such a social and creative device. So in order to understand yourself you need to understand the mating game. The brain is a fantastic bit of hardware which houses everything that you are and everything that you will ever be. Your emotions, instincts, memories are all up in your brain. Your mind, your soul, your personality are all stored in the brain. So I am working with Dr Paul to help other people learn how to use this bit of hardware more effectively, by using the so called software which Dr. Paul has developed. Software which allows people to for the first time use the brain more effectively.

The European team and I are now running Bootcamps monthly in Europe. This is not PUA training, this is your training, this is learning to be a Man, learning how to use the piece of hardware in your head, how to be a gentleman with an edge, how to be yourself. I hope to meet you all one day.

SaecoPink: a sassy taskmistress with a heart of gold (it’s cliché, but it’s so true!), a firm hand, and a good sense of humor, who has the great honor to be the first female Moderator in the Men’s forum! The other story is that I'm a never-married, 42 yo, native San Franciscan living in Los Angeles after moving to Paris to complete my B.A in International Affairs. I went for that degree following the worst relationship of my life. Kids, don't move in with someone you've known only a short time. It won’t last, I guarantee you. I know of so many married-after-three-months, divorced after two years stories, I could write a book.

The upshot is that I was exposed to Buddhism. In the absence of other clinical psychological support, I couldn't recommend anything higher. Not gonna preach it, tho.

I've been doing the internet dating thing since the beginning of time (okay, prior to that I did telephone dating – see, back in the 80s, there wasn’t an internet as we know it today, there were only telephones. So self-arranged blind dates were done via a toll call voice-mail type setup. People would call 1-900-dateme, etc. and place a voice-ad & answer voice ads. God, I'm OLD!) and have yet to find my guy. However, I have managed to set up a guy I met online with a friend of a friend. They've been living together for over a year now. Figures.

I found out about Dr. Paul after stumbling upon Christian Carter and reading his extremely helpful text "Catch Him and Keep Him." Prior to that, I hadn't understood the fundamental communication and world view differences men had in comparison to women. Eye opening for me.

Well, that text spurred my interest in understanding more about how men communicate with women. I just kept trying to expand my knowledge base of things that interest and concern men. Men.com is definitely something I found useful to touch base with every now and again. Youtube is essential, of course. So many dating and relating gurus post their material there.

I found Dr. Paul’s blog, forum, and newsletters via womenshappiness.com and while exploring that site, discovered that there was an entire universe of material devoted to men and their pursuit of fulfilling relationships with women, and themselves. Well, that introduced me to a whole new environment for a thinking person’s approach to the mating and relating process.

I hope my unique experiences and point of view will enrich your life journey as much as yours will mine. I also wish you rapidly achieved wisdom and self happiness.

Padyo:

Hello, I am an Irish man living in Cape Town, South Africa. Originally from Belfast.
I have at other times lived in Liverpool and London. I am currently a Lecturer in Graphic Design and Art Direction. I have worked as a designer, a teacher, a painter and decorator and coach. I have been a professional Rugby player and owned a Skateboard brand for a number of years in the UK. I'm mainly a warrior.

In 1999 I underwent two years of treatment for Ewings Sarcoma, a rare form of bone cancer. This involved varying amounts chemotherapy, radiotherapy and multiple surgeries to replace a large section of my lower jaw with bone from my hip.

At this time I lost my relationship, my working life faltered and my rugby career stopped completely. Since then I have been rebuilding my life which has included a return taking part in high level rubgy (both playing and coaching) and improved but moderate success but in rebuilding a career and dating life.

This has changed in many ways due to the materials Dr. Paul has developed. I found MindOS to be extraordinarily useful in helping me see how my experience with cancer had affected me and more recently practicing the material helped push me to move continent to Africa to a new job and abundant social opportunities.

Whilst my life experience is varied I can claim some degree of expertise in overcoming personal challenges health related or otherwise. I also know other stuff about other stuff. I love the materials and enjoy relating them to all areas of my life.

I work with Jonny's Imerman Angels supporting other cancer fighters. I surf a lot. I support Liverpool Football Club. I love Ireland.

I will keep studying the materials and continue to add to the forum in the best way I can. I will also happily absorbing the vast array of knowledge that is on here concerning all areas of your own development.

Slainte!

ZaChy

Hello to all the ridiculously, phenomenal men and women out there! How is everybody doin'?!
To start off I'm the 'M' part of the KWML spectrum and no I'm not that guy everybody sees and thinks 'I bet he would jump through a bonfire naked', don't get me wrong I would, but I'm something entirely new.

I grew up in Ft. Collins, Colorado where I still reside with my family and own a breakfast and lunch place with my Dad and my younger brother. I am an artist of many forms but my true calling, my mission, my passion is music and being a part of Dr. Paul's team. I studied music for 3 years and plan on continuing my music education within the next year after I am finished with my BA this summer. I just released my first album on December 20, 2009 and I am currently working on my music career to become a successful musician and developing my character into a better man for myself and others.

Now for my background with dating Well I would be lying if I said I was terrible with the ladies, I wasn't.
I just attracted all the girls I didn't have an interest in all through junior high and high school Never got the girls I wanted EVER! My junior year of high school I got turned down by I don't know how many women, but I do remember asking 4 different girls to go to a dance with me and all of them gave me a psychological kick in the pleasure center. One of them even said 'no' before I even asked her, and these girls were my friends supposedly.

So when did things change? Well in 2007 I fell in love with a wonderful, beautiful woman whom was the first serious relationship I had ever had. We dated for nearly a year when we eventually split up. I was destroyed, drained, lost, pretty much everything bad. This led me to Dr. Paul.
My life was forever changed. I was bouncin' back with authority, I knew what I wanted to become. The real thing

Although I am well rounded in the knowledge Dr. Paul teaches, I specialize in APPROACH and CONVERSATION when it comes to women. How can I help you, you say? I have a natural gift at socializing and connecting with women that many men struggle with. With this gift, and the offerings of Dr. Paul, I have experienced a vibrant social life, which allows me to help YOU understand the social dynamics required to be that oh so attractive Omega Male only the most high quality women seek

Here's what one of my clients said:

I think a big strength for you in your coaching style is your confidence and rapport building. I find that your homework is spot on, exactly what I need to work on... targeted, specific, and SIMPLE. I admire you becoming such an avid personal growth student at such a young age, and your commitment to that type of work for yourself and now in your sharing with others. Sharing really is the next level. I felt more confident after speaking with you, and you seemed to help me see my issue in a "lighter" light, if that makes sense... like, not so serious and heavy but more casual and simple.

-Toreador

I have grown tired of seeing many waste away their potential in this life, and have grown tired of drinkin' the craptastic kool-aid. I am here to be the elite, to be part of a team of people who strive for the best, who are the best, who are the most honorable, the most truthful, REAL men, REAL women, and move everybody here who wants to be at the top to the TOP with me. It is my firm belief is that we don't try anymore, we DO, in the words of Yoda who was a wise green, crazy, jedi thing that had his shiznatti together. Lets get everybody here on the forums to the top, and there is room at the top. The top doesn't have to be lonely anymore, so ladies and gentlemen prepare to unleash the greatness that is your being. I am honored and thankful to be of help and be a part of everything that Dr. Paul, his team, and all of the forum members believe in! LET US DO DIS THANG!!!! WOOOOOOOOOoOoooowowoOWOW!!!!!!!!!!!

Sincerely,
Zachy

Laclavedelapapa, sometimes known as "Papa"

I discovered Dr Paul's material early in 2007. I was 17 years old at the time, and now I'm 20. Back then I used to be a very analytical person (I'm a King by the way), with lots of perfectionism going on in myself (remember that perfectionism isn't an admirable thing, but something that holds you back and keeps you from putting yourself out there and enjoying yourself), and in MindOS terms, you could say that I was someone with many holes in his boundary, lots of conscience, but very little Intuition, and lots of Education with very little Experience.

Ever since investing in Dr Paul's materials, I've been able to successfully work on all those areas. Though I still have a long way to go in the "Skill with Women" area, I have to say I have made some progress there, but the most progress I've made (and this is something I'm very proud of) is in the Character Development and Mission in Life areas.

Nowadays, my Mission is advancing with great momentum (I'm a Psychology student here in Argentina, the country where I was born, and I also enjoy a lot being a part of Dr Paul's team of forum moderators) and my maturity level is as high as it's ever been (obviously there's always room for further growth ). Over the last 3 years, I've patiently worked on my level of self-esteem (by doing tons of Assertiveness and Courage), Intuition (by sampling new environments and specially moving to a new city, to live on my own), and Right-brained creative/adaptation skills (by cultivating more life experience in general, which is something I used to avoid in the past; and also taking several Improv/acting classes, as well as singing and piano lessons).

My Personal Boundary has also improved a lot over the years, making me a stronger person overall, and more durable as far as being able to keep my level of wellbeing and "inner peace" intact despite of many trivial external events.

In January, 2008, I was appointed a moderator here at the forum, which is a task I enjoy doing a lot, since I believe helps me grow, while also helping others take the right action in their lives, and understand Dr Paul's materials better. I realized that by trying to explain others what I know, not only does my knowledge on the subject expand further, but I also have the advantage of having it all "written down" for me to read during challenging times, where my Observing Ego might not be so "on". Plus the feedback and advice provided to me by the forum members here has been invaluable to me as far as building a solid identity and self-esteem.

In that same year (2008) I translated the MindOS, Mature Masculine Power and KWML ebooks into Spanish (they'll soon be released by the way )

So anyway, 2009 was a great year for me (I moved cities, started college, made many new friends and grew a lot) and I have the feeling 2010 will be awesome as well.

Cheers!

ARES

I am Ares.

Just like you, Dr. Paul's material found me through coincidence, fate, and/or luck.
Have always been very curious about relationships, and about human beings. We're an amazing subject!

It was an interesting reading, to keep my mind occupied and curiosity peaked... Until something very real happened...

I felt fulfilled, never felt more proud than when I gave it all... I achieved rank in my job, I enjoyed every day and looked forward to the next.

Women cheered me all day long... sometimes being a little too flirty... I LOVED it.
I felt like kicking ass!

This vibe fed all other areas of my life, women could feel it, and I was making a good living doing something I loved.

But I didn't know there were some areas of my character that were lacking, and I also lacked experience dealing with immature people, and recognizing them.

I failed to think honestly.

Then it HAPPENED.

The poor decisions I had made caught up with me, and I found myself being cheated on.
Hurt and used by the woman I loved.

This led me to the biggest deppression I've ever experienced, I would cry for the silliest things... have anxiety attacks... palpitations, even loss of bodily functions... and a total lack of passion for and enjoyment of life.

It was BAD.

But it didn't end there. Oh no. the one thing that was keeping my head above water was gone.

I was FIRED.

I had nowhere to go, no one to talk to.
The only place I have found a belonging is here, in these forums.

I took to, re-reading, and study Dr. Paul's materials with a vengeance, now that I could apply all the teachings and relate them to my OWN situation and context in my life. WOW.

I could see the theory in motion in my OWN LIFE! I saw with my own eyes that this stuff actually works!

I knew why I was feeling the way I felt.
What led me into this forsaken territory,
I understood why circumstances evolved the way they did.
And most importantly, I had a guide to show me the WAY OUT.

Thank you Dr Paul, it was SERENDIPITY that helped me get involved with your work, and this forum, just at the right time... to help me deal with all this.

Just understanding the dynamics saved me a LOT of PAIN trying to understand her conduct...

And for that I'm forever grateful.

MindOS IS OBSERVING EGO.


Armed with these great knwoledge as a tool, to bring myself out of this hole, I've succeeded in rebuilding my life on a strong foundation. I know what I did wrong, what I did right.

I've faced my fears, and learned about myself, and found an inner strength I didn't know was in me.

I'm confident YOU can do it too!

I don't want ANYBODY to have to go through such experiences with out knowing what to do to not feel trapped, but empowered and knowing that it only makes you a better MAN.

You are NOT alone.

We may walk different paths, but we're all in the same journey together.

I want to help you understand this material so YOU can USE it to achieve the LIFE of YOUR DREAMS! Lets inspire each other to make a better world, now, in a real, tangible way.

I'll be proud to call you my brother. And if you are reading this, well, you already are!

Lead from the front. Teach by example. Be proud!


If you have questions about MindOS, shoot me a pm, or see below:

coach.ares on skype.

Feel free to IM me on there if you want to (make sure you tell me what your username on here is and your real name too!).


Testimonial from a member:

I just finished my first consultation with Ares. In a time when I had difficulty putting my struggles into words, Ares provided focus, helping me find my way through the mess and pinpoint my hurdles. I have since been able to approach areas of my life with greater knowledge, comfortability, and ultimately effectiveness, allowing me to enjoy and draw more from life and its opportunities. Ares' time and insight has been extremely valuable to me and worthy of the investment.

Mind Scientist

I'm a scientist and that is also my nickname to a large number of friends and acquaintances. I received my Bachelor’s degrees in Mathematics and Philosophy from a small private college, went into the workforce doing Biology work. A few years later I went back to school and received my Master’s degree in Biology from Washington University in a program that emphasized biotechnology. I’ve been a biological research scientist for over 22 years. I started out doing large scale cell culture and virus propagation and went on to do product development, process improvement and assay development with bacteria, protozoa and viruses.

I was married for 19 years before leaving my ex-wife. I have a 24 year old son who is studying Physics in British Columbia and plans to be a physics research professor.

My skills with women were never as good as I wanted them to be, but I was pretty decent in Jr High and High School. I did pretty good in college, but again... not as good as I wanted.

When I left my ex and moved to the city, I was overwhelmed. I made more visits to bars in the first 6 months than I had in the previous 19 years. I found that my new situation was full of opportunities and complexities. I met and dated/hooked up with cooler women than I even knew existed before that. I also knew that I was messing up most of the chances where I had initial attraction.

I found Dr Paul due to a search for an understanding of masculinity. When I came across MindOS, I was fascinated and have been learning ever since.

Dr Paul's work has helped me in so many facets of my life. With women, I would describe it as drastically improving my batting average. You know those hot women who you can tell are into you, but most of the time you mess it up? That's where my biggest improvement is. The other big thing I've got is a brain that is freer to think. I consciously work to integrate my Dr Paul's material so that I don't have to 'think about it' and am free to be me.

fljp727

How I discovered Dr. Paul

I discovered Dr. Paul’s stuff while listening to another guru’s product in late 2006. While listening to him talk, I instantly knew this was the guy with the answers! I bought the Omega Male CD program in 2007 and attended the first Omega Male Seminar in London in 2008. Everyday since, I have made a conscious effort to apply and use the principles I learned in the program to achieve greater success with women, and more clarity in my mission.


Background

Before attending the Omega Male Seminar my masculinity needed a lot of work, my inner game and outer game were suffering, I lacked any type of initiation, and my reptilian brain skills needed to be developed from practically zero.

My relationships with women were few and far between and went something like this: Once or twice a year I would meet a women, I’d get lucky and without knowing what I did or how I did it, I would complete the steps necessary to be attractive to her, we would hook up, and then I would immediately hand over all of my power and mystery in a feeble to create a relationship. Her attraction for me died instantly.

In my work and career, I was somewhat successful on the surface, but lacked any real direction or passion for what I was doing. I made career decisions based on what others expected of me.

Any of this sound familiar to you? Since then all of that has changed.

Read the letter below, it’s a letter I recently shared with Dr Paul, which details my growth and progress since attending the Omega Male seminar. The letter was the focus of a newsletter and was placed in the Best Practice Field Reports section of the wiki.

Dr Paul,
Today's newsletter inspired me to write to you about being a lover. Hopefully you can use this to inspire other guys who are lovers, or to just give them a swift kick in ass to take some action in their lives.
I'm a lover. I've struggled with becoming more masculine and with women. I read a lot of guys on the forum bitching and complaining about being a lover and thinking they are destined to an unfulfilled life as a man and with woman. These guys are so wrong and their negative attitude totally deprives them of the rewards that are inherent with being a lover. I think a lover with a strong core of masculinity juxtaposed with a nurturing, poetic, romantic nature is the most mysterious (aka attractive) man out there. The key to building this core is doing courage, and taking action (and maybe martial arts, or some other form of "manly" physical training). Here's a recap of what I have done since I attended the Omega Male Seminar in July 2008 and decided to step up, be a man, have courage and take action. Six months ago, I stepped off a plane in a new country where I didn't know anyone and didn't speak the language and had only the promise of a job which would provide a meager income. Six months later, I have found a job making really great money and which has allowed me to have the funds to travel around the continent when my work contract expires next month. I am conversational in a new language, which will be a huge help for me career wise when I return home, and I am dating a local girl that I met at a club about 4.5 months ago when I hardly knew the language at all. I set a strong boundary with her from the time we met that I would be returning home and made no promises of returning. I have created an attraction with her strong enough that she is happy with that, and we've had a really great time playing and building our story with in the boundary that I've set. She's not a good KWML match for me, and I can tell there is a little something missing in our relationship, but that's OK this relationship came with a built in end date, and she fits into and supports my mission as it currently stands, so the trading of resources for being able to build my skill with women in this case was an easy choice. In addition to building my skills, I have got glimpses of that passionate "king of the world" feeling that you get when you've got a woman in your social territory and you're able to build a commitment with her that benefits you and your mission. I return to my hometown in about 6 or 7 weeks, I am excited to get out, flirt and date with women and see their reaction to the "new" me and eventually building something even greater with a warrior woman. Although, I wonder what it's going to be like when what I've built with my girlfriend here is over. Regardless, I am sure that the strength of my boundaries and OE will guide me. So I want to tell all of the lover males out there, you've got gold lying inside you, you just have to man up, find it, polish it and let it shine!

Clearly, I have made a 180 degree turn around in my career and my dating life since applying Dr. Paul’s material, and now I’m available to provide you with the coaching, advice, accountability, motivation and inspiration to achieve the same amazing levels of growth and change in your life.

My Specialties:

Helping Lover’s Build Masculinity
Lovers have the most difficult time growing into their full masculine potential. But for lovers the hard work of developing mature masculinity comes with great rewards, and potential for success. The potential for mystery (the first step of sexual attractiveness) is huge for lovers. As I lover, I intimately know your struggles, and strengths. Together we can work to develop direction, focus, strategies, and tactics that will catapult you to the level of success that you deserve in your career and your dating life.

Post Therapy Support
One of the most courageous decisions any man can make is the decision to seek therapy to recover from trauma. EMDR and other forms of therapy can lead to rapid personal growth and change as old, limiting, harmful beliefs are replaced with new, useful empowering beliefs. Seeking therapy can be empowering, but at times overwhelming. Unlike seeking therapy for physical trauma, men who seek therapy for psychological trauma usually lack the ability to seek the support of friends, co-workers, and family members. Dr. Paul has mentioned many times that the psychiatric community often operates in a “gender neutral” way, and that male psychiatric students are often chosen because of their “feminine qualities”. This makes it tough for a man seeking therapy as a means to overcome traumas that prevent him from living up to his full masculine potential! I am NOT a therapist, but as a former EMDR patient, I can give support while you’re dealing with the flood of emotions you will no doubt experience while going through therapy. I can share your triumphs, and low points as you navigate this, at times, lonely road. As one of Dr. Paul’s coaches I can help you relate your experience in therapy back to Mind OS, Omega Male, and Mature Masculine principles, something that your friends and probably even your therapist won’t be able to do!

What clients are saying...
This was my first phone consultation and I wasn't sure what to expect, but was pleasantly surprised at the contrast it provided to the forums and teleseminars. JP is an intelligent guy who can pack a lot of information into an hour. JP got a general idea of where I was coming from and we picked an area that needed focus, specifically my feeling comfortable in my own skin while in public. Throughout the hour he went into great detail offering solutions and insight. He kept a good direction and made sure that he understood where I was coming from. I feel that I've developed a stronger boundary having had the consultation, and look forward to the next one.

-freethrowking

When i decided I was going to take the step, and connect to a live in person coach, I did not quite know what to expect. I contacted JP and sat up a meeting.
Now after three sessions i see things in a different light. The effect of actually taking the materials into a live convo, spesific for my needs with a person like Jim, has been really awsome.
He has a way of doing things according to you, and guides you trough what you need very smooth and flawlessly.
Warmly recommended

-Jonas, Norway

There it is guys! If you want to talk about growing your masculinity, need support during therapy, or just need help getting your life together…CONTACT ME.
jp@menspsychology.com

Charliechaps

I am a Magician /Lover. I was always good at making friendships and being social. I was always a target for bullies but I seemed to have a way of making them not follow through. I think it had to do with winning the crowd and not reacting to their threats?? Ha ha!

As regards career, I messed this up by doing a university degree I hated. As regards girls, I hadn’t any trouble attracting them due to my outgoing personality – but was clueless really as I’d eventually discover.

As I found college so difficult it really got me down but I was raised to believe you work hard and get on with it. So I did. I was always pretty resilient and could always put a positive spin on situations and make the most of life. Out in the working world I had no passion for my work but used the money to enjoy life – still in ‘nobody likes their job but you just get on with it’ mode.

Over the years I had only a handful of girlfriends but a lot of one-night stands. I was happy enough but knew something was up. After a bad breakup coupled with a job I really, really hated my head was fried. I typed into Google ‘How do I get over an ex-girlfriend’ and a certain dating guru’s website popped up. I would have always been a practical guy so my instinct was not to click on it but I did. I just remember reading his opening page. I had always known I was interested in people and how things work i.e. psychology, but thought psychology was inaccessible and in big thick books and couldn’t be grasped without years of university training. But on this one page was psychology simplified! (Obviously not really - seeing as I now know it’s just the kitchen table variety)! But it was from out of the blue exactly what I had always been looking to find. All I ever knew was what religion told me and nobody I knew talked about the world and how it really worked.

I instantly became happier! I saw a light – a whole new world had opened up to me. And I drank it up like crazy! I quickly delved deeper into Dr Paul’s materials whilst studying all the dating and coaching gurus. Within a month I was back out in the world and seeing it in a whole new way. For a few weeks I was on fire! I calmed down after awhile but was happier than before. The more I got into Dr Paul’s materials the more I could see exactly what all the other gurus were all about. I could pick out their KWMLs and see why they were doing what they were doing. I remember writing to Dr Paul and telling him I was, from that moment onwards, going to concentrate solely on his materials. Of course I kept an eye on the others’ materials – they do have SOME useful things to offer!

So I was back being social and it was good to know all this dating stuff. But my real issue right from the get-go was my working life. It was really getting me down. As I discovered from Dr Paul this was my Mission part of the Masculinity Equation. Just having it put into an equation that it is proven scientifically that if you don’t apply it to your life you will be unhappy was so simple, yet powerful.

So I looked at what I loved doing in my past and knew I needed to return to these things. From very young I sang and acted and always wrote brilliant essays in English class. So I started night courses in Drama and writing and joined a theatre group and started singing in local competitions and at parties. I had read all the dating stuff but it didn’t really interest me as I knew any relationship would fail as a result of lack of Mission.

When Dr Paul came to London in 2008 I was in like Flint! I was all about Mission but it was a dating focused seminar. I was at a stage where I was very focused on trying to sort myself out so I wasn’t being my old self when I’d go out on the town. Seeing Dr Paul and his coaches just have fun was very eye opening for me. I used to do that! Why did I stop? So I learned a lot just by seeing it in front of my eyes. And the rest is history – I became a Dr Paul Coach. Something I had actually written as a goal back in my early days of studying his materials had come true!

Today I am still performing and no longer working in the engineering career I hated for so long - thanks to the recession! Ha ha! I am working in a theatre learning the ropes. I don’t get paid but it’s a move in the right direction. I am now more open to the Skill with Women part of the Masculinity Equation because I have hope of a happier direction in life.

Dr Paul has spoken before about how all the successful people throughout history became so because they concentrated all their energies on just one thing, but he himself does many things, except they all fall under one overall umbrella. I think the direction I have steered my life in in the past 4-5 years is pretty broad but from an overall viewpoint links well together.

I am not where I want to be yet and definitely have doubts on a regular basis as it’s a very unstable kind of direction to follow. Engineering is definitely a more stable career path but to follow it would be detrimental. Having said that, the practicality of that industry has definitely given me more grounded people skills I might never have gained had I originally followed a totally artistic path from Day 1.

We all have our stories here and they are all different. They hopefully show you that as Coaches and Moderators we didn’t just lie down in life and fall into this job. Dr Paul recognised a willingness in us to get out there and make our lives happen instead of wishing it will all magically fall into place. Life takes work – knowledge wise and experience wise. Dr Paul has devised a map that you can follow to improve your life and we, as Coaches and Moderators, are here to help you implement it.

I wish you all the very best along the way.

charliechaps wrote:Charliechaps

We all have our stories here and they are all different. They hopefully show you that as Coaches and Moderators we didn’t just lie down in life and fall into this job. Dr Paul recognised a willingness in us to get out there and make our lives happen instead of wishing it will all magically fall into place. Life takes work – knowledge wise and experience wise. Dr Paul has devised a map that you can follow to improve your life and we, as Coaches and Moderators, are here to help you implement it.

Hooah!

NEW COACH! - HOUDINI

Hello! I'm Houdini, and welcome to the Men’s Psychology On Demand forum! You must be one smart person.
No matter what has happened in your life you’ve come to a very special place to gain knowledge, learn about psychology, relationships, career and life in general.

This is not just a place to acquire a revolution in integrated life learning systems-

This is not just a place to find the most cutting edge “get the woman of your dreams” technology on the planet-

This is not just a place to finally get the answers that you’ve maybe been searching for your entire life-

This place delivers ALL THAT and then some if you’re willing to work for it! It’s a true team, a brotherhood, men on the same mission supporting and mentoring for life.

A little about me:

I grew up in the central Florida area under the watchful eye of an uber masculine warrior father possessing the maturity of a teenager. My poet/lover mom was very kind, loving and a religious fanatic. (Can anyone relate?) Both of my parents are still together and awesome people, I love them both. Growing up with both parents always present in my life gave me a unique dichotomy in terms of my upbringing and education. I went to Southern Baptist Christian School by day and spent more than a few crazy nights with dad.

Some of those nights included drug deals down dark dirt roads (when I was around 6 or 7) and being brought home by the police on occasion. Although, people speaking in tongues and rolling in the aisles at Wednesday night church with mom was kind of crazy too!
Unfortunately I was a victim of sexual abuse by more than one person (not my parents), but I coped very well with that. Quite a childhood I had. I never dated in High School but started to when I went to college. After a couple of years in school I realized I needed to do something different. United States Navy, here I come!

I joined the Navy and became a special operations corpsman. I have a vast knowledge of medicine and have performed major field trauma surgeries. Special Ops was a crazy world that took me all over it. I was a point man for a time on a small recon team and a combat diver utilizing closed circuit dive rigs. I went through a French Foreign Legion Commando School and on another occasion joined a secret school with Green Beret’s and Navy S.E.A.L.s.

Having all this experience no doubt helped me attract women. Although, it sure didn’t help me get the women I most desired or help me keep the ones I was with for very long.

Fast forward a few years, I have some modest success in business and married with a little girl. I then find myself DIVORCED! I became a full time single parent of a 4-year-old little girl. My first wife cheated on me, but not before deciding to become an exotic dancer. This was not a fun time, and my wife’s new career move became public knowledge which included my boss and some neighbors. Slightly more than embarrassed, I kicked her out and started over with my daughter. Not long there after I remarried like a total moron.

I married for love, my second wife was beautiful, a warrior and unfortunately, not very trust worthy. Heartbroken and lost after a second cheating wife, second divorce and now hundreds of thousands of dollars gone, I was at ground zero.

One night while sitting on my ground zero I envisioned a large hand and finger in the sky pointing back at me. It spoke and said, “It's all your fault.” That was the most EMPOWERING thing I've ever heard. Does it sound masochistic to say, "It's all my fault." Well, it's not really, when you look at the other side of it. The other side of it is that I had complete power to TURN EVERYTHING AROUND. Once I realized everything was ultimately my fault as a result of the decisions I made, then the fog began to lift. I’ve been through all the “guru” dating salesmen out there which led me to Dr. Paul. The man, the myth, the legend!

Seriously, his technology and these forums have helped to transform my life. I’m so humble to have the success I have in dating the most AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, KIND and THOUGHTFULL WOMEN that I do.

Live the dream…

My stage name, artist name and nickname is BOOM.
O yea, and my Mama gave me that name !

You can also call me Trevor.

By mission I am a teacher and preformer currently doing Krump, Hip Hop and Various Dance style’s workshop's Across the Country.

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This has been my trip too Men's pysch back when it was docterpaul.com. It is odd so be warned.

Raised with a hidden lonely kind of pain, which was My religious understanding caused me to be oblivious to all forms of attraction. I denied them because I thought they were the devil. Thus female friends actually weren’t “just Friends.” They were often attracted to me but I erased or didn’t see it. (I know your thinking like wow what a sad problem you motha bleeping bastard)

I spent a decade and some being called a liar by women, or ridiculed by men for making it known I was a virgin and waiting for marriage Boom the ladies. My suffering insurmountable because I thought masculinity was going to put me in hell!

My first three Girlfirends passed away. The first girlfriend I found out about after the second girlfriends funeral. The last was my fiancee. After these ordeal commitment phobia was an understatement.I thought I was saving lives by not being committed. Seeing marriage as a impossibility without commitment. I didn’t want to commit and I wasn’t supposed to have sex until marriage. I though wtf am I here for? RAGE, anger, and trauma at the max lead to boundaries walls breaking and the devil came out. I learned the extremes of two different pendulums and the curses that are involved.

The Dark Age’s (reptilian brain exploits.) :
I met alot of men, woman, and pua's or their students, who all helped me do somthing I really was against character-wise which is having sex with women reallllly fast. I went to this huge conference that had the whole mens community that David D. ran, andDr paul spoke at. He seemed like the only dude who wanted women men and the world to be better off. Sadly I lisened to him the least at that time.

After going to school for pyschology/socialology I wanted to target helping people of my nationality with relationship woes, because our scene is different yet Grim.The problem was those lesson weren't clear enough to use. This confusing lead to trip with my friends out of the country.

We lived it up, learned about eachother and got into a huge argument that made some of us good friends and angered me enough to almost be fearless talking to women at an nightclub.
I researched Dr Paul after I got back in the states remebering him saying "It's like yourself watching you." My night in Canada was like a lucid dream. It was errie.

What I have to offer is a very experienced oriented way to date if you are of a faith that is very Strict.
From the Masculine point of view
Dealing with physical traumas in relation to your mission.

I offer great ways to be male, friendly, and Strong. I left this forum to live the technologyI almost died this time last year in car accident. BOOM! The same sound brought me back to the forum to see how I dealt with tragedy so well. This permanent injury is my I-DENT-ity, Pun intended! The Answer was my mission in life saved my life by bleeding onto my confidenc and beliefs. So I offer deep experience on overcoming physically disabling traumas in terms of your mission.

Personality Skills I can offer

A very experienced way of getting in and out of your Kingly mind or lover-ish B.S
A Very good way to be happy and ruthless with your warriorside especially with other warriors
A VERY GOOD WAY TO TRAIN the magician in you . It must be real.

Get deep into woman’s mind and learn how to bond with them.( PROBALLY MY BEST SKILL.) Also learn how to deal with the way they compete over you.

If you can do these things with yourself, and stay aware, then women come to YOU. Screen well, stay happy and Grab them.Dance ever so gracefully across those three minds.

EASILY AND AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACT GOOD CHARACTER WOMEN

I have been refering many a friend, foe, Female to Womanhappiness and mens pyschology as well as showing them what I've learned and what I can do in the dating area since about 2008. Experince everything! Knowledge alone can cripple you.

Some simple things to do if you are reading this. IF you have heard a tactic or skill here, then wrote about it 20 times without using it once for MONTHS, GET UP NOW and Use the technology today!!!!
No more thinking without bringing the thought into this world.

Go tell a warrior you feel their power.
Ask a Queen or king for advice.
Tell a lover a story and ask for some in return.
Put a magician on the spot and applaud the hell out of them.

IF YOU DONT USE THIS TECHNOLOGY YOUR wasting your more then time. Your wasting Life.

BELIEF’s are yours to apply evidence too. Get the Technology here that’s needed, then come to us and Dr Paul when you can correctly afford too.

Your mom, dad, wife, goldfish.God,Devil CANNOT take your mind and free will away.Use it .