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Dr. Paul,

Wasn't sure where to post this entry. As it is a thank you and appreciation for what you've done for me with your work. There was an entry for core principles .... yet I do not see it in the list any longer.

I know you're not a Saint just the Doctor! I get it.

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Please accept my appreciation and deep gratitude to Dr. Paul for his Mind OS and work.

Two years ago:

I went to Chicago and participated in the Omega weekend. I had at that time recently become separated from my wife (children) and was devastated emotionally. I went through numerous states of mind, all in the frame of getting her back; this would cost me in time, love, and resources. My divorce is not final as of this date and the financial losses are in the tens of thousands and yet the time and suffering was unnecessary and I lost my job in March. Now the legal system is telling me that I'm responsible for $50,000 college expenses for one adult child and one that's currently enrolling college this year and then my youngest now in high school. The state of Illinois is one of 13 states that have such a law in place. I went to the seminar more out anger and little did I know what I would learn.

Dr. Paul can only tell us what he's found to be the core issues and options. I could have save myself much in resources and suffering if I were implemented sooner. Yet now I have developed a very high level of observing ego, integration, and now working on mission. I want to share what I've learned about the core principles.

I was one of the first individuals diagnosed with dyslexia in the 60s and in dictating this entry. Using the voice recognition technology to help others with learning disabilities is part of the core of my future MISSION..

While in Chicago I met a woman on one of the nights we went out, attraction was a 10, Shakira looking if you know what I mean. We've maintained a friendship and relationship since, putting it this way, a lot of positive drama was enjoyed. I pointed this out because I was taking a higher road and the relationship was platonic as she is 15 years younger than me. She would introduce me to all kinds of nightlife and restaurants in Chicago initially feeding me chocolate strawberries and good wine. Point being that the Omega program and principles work for someone even when they're at their worst. I simply shared KWML technology. Anyway, not bad ways to get off the ground.

Dr. Paul teaches character development, in Mind OS versus the Omega work, first inter game of high character, then the romantic story outer game.

What I've learned:

Boundaries: this principle was one of the hardest for me to really get a sense of and identify with for many reasons. My understanding now of a boundary in the context of self is your best self or higher self. I may be off your just a bit to let the doctor and other coaches touch on it but the key to remember I believe is that any mental process higher, middle, or base is EGO. Be that of Superego or negative ego (low self-esteem). The benefit of setting a clear boundary is that you can present REAL SELF and all what that means. I needed help with this issue and I learned a lot about working with others and in a system and not trying to make everything happen myself once I established and accepted my limits and strengths.


Anger and Anxiety: Most of my focus was on these points. Attempting to change them to positive energy. What I can share that I believe is most important is if you're in a situation such as a breakup or divorce remember you can always finish the work after you taking care the legal situation. HA! As Dr. Paul shares spectrum of these two negative emotions blind, hold, and create immaturity in thought and action. Anger was one I was very familiar with is an ex-military person yet the anxiety would be a battle that lasted almost a year and a half. Dr. Paul suggests in EMDR which I did and it did help substantially. Yet for myself and ultimately would have to face my fears of success; at the core was a passive state of mind and a lack of mission.

Dr. Paul uses the story of the Count of Monte Christo is a metaphor for the process that he lays out. I find that to be true as in the story Dantes required a few years to get out of jail with tools we built out of spoons and bones. To give himself time and patience.

Find a process that works for you. EMDR or Yoga or Prayer. What ever works for your? Integrate. I found that further coaching and others were needed to lead me to my core issues. Dr. Paul warns against pop psychology and it’s critical that you understand that point. I found the concepts in science of physics and string theory to truly be enlightening for me about LETTING GO of negativity and disempowering beliefs.

Observing Ego: Dr. Paul expresses how important is this and what is teaching. I don't believe that he means you have to become a Zen master yet it couldn't hurt. Of all the things he talks about the key I believe your is to realize that every mental process is EGO in some form and that's okay. I study yoga and understand the principle of being selfless, yet the person to do that in my lifetime doing it. What I learned from this is how the flow.

Bruce Lee said “Be water my friend……” when speaking of JKD his martial arts. Water flow.

FLOW STATES. This is the objective. Assertiveness and Courage are FLOW States of mind. Only you can define those states for yourself. Observing ego is tools that help you do that process.


Again this is a statement of appreciation to Dr. Paul and his work. It's helped me put my life in perspective and given the tools ACTION. LIVE IN THE MOMENT is another way of saying - . Assertiveness and Courage. I told Dr. Paul I talked the seminar that I didn't need anything I'm picking up women are pretty much had a pretty good. Skill from youth. (Not so Real Men get pick up Ha). I wanted to learn about mission and it was the answer I needed to go through some thick walls of resistance.

Now after looking back over the last two years I was not out picking up women. I was out and meeting them and working on myself. I studied yoga I tried to save a relationship with 25 years using the principles that Dr. Paul teaches and integrity and character. Even when I made the mistakes others saw that I was working on myself they may not have understood everything I did and here's the outcome that I did not expect or realize.

I have met hundreds of incredible women over the last few years. These are relationships of friendship. One day of sitting in Yoga class and looked around one of two guys sitting in the middle of 50 elite educated and beautiful women. I was still in pain and denile my awareness was working on the principles here yet started to see OPTIONS.

Now that I decided to work ONLY on my MISSION in life and GIVE my gift and work from a state of mind of appreciation – opposite and any negative emotions. Giving from abundance and appreciate hart is what a man does and I am a Omega Man. So if anybody tells me it's not enough, I simply smile, and say more is coming and it gets better from here.

Be a Professional gentleman it is the first step to overcoming the insidious resistance of this Matrix and find your Muse or Angel.

Thank you. Thank you.